Yes, that is the quote which I believe came from JO's husband.
Allen Liknes is intent on being present for each and every court appearance of his brother-in-law Douglas Garland, a man he describes as a loner whom he hasn’t seen in more than four years.
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"I*never even knew Doug Garland existed and I highly doubt my mom did, either,” she says. “Sometimes it hits you so hard, and you can’t even breathe. You think I can’t make it through, I can’t do this.” (JO)
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According to a relative of Mr. Liknes, Mr. Garland altered one of the patents and believed he should have been included as one of the inventors. Mr. Liknes paid for the work, but would not give Mr. Garland credit for the invention, said the family member, who described the dispute as “petty.”
http://www.nationalpost.com/m/wp/tag/index.html?b=news.nationalpost.com&t=douglas-garland