BBM, you inadvertently bolstered my theory without trying. Barry simply didn't want to leave his home and start over. IMO this is still a murder suicide, and the move was the catalyst that led to it.
No, I didn't bolster your theory. You conveniently took it out of context and used it for your own use.
That was referring to people who moved from homes to condos/small apartments without thinking about the whole lifestyle change.
There was a whole list of valid reasons to move homes in my post. I don't believe its a S/M nor that Barry didn't want to leave his home and killed his wife. THAT makes no sense whatsoever to me.