It is hard to get this case off our minds.
I want to share this should the person/people involved be reading:
If the person responsible is still out there, it’s possible they’re experiencing a kind of emotional unraveling. (Friends and family, be alert.)
If you're the perpetrator, that kind of reaction is human. You'll be swinging between fear, guilt, and attempt to justify yourself to yourself. You want to wash everything away. But you can't. You never will without accountability. But, you are not beyond help or forgiveness.
If you acted during a mental breakdown, that doesn’t remove responsibility, but it does mean you need medical help in addition to legal accountability. People in acute psychological crisis often deteriorate afterward, and many eventually seek help because they can’t stabilize on their own. The justice system has established processes for this: evaluation, treatment, and due‑process protections. There is help, but it happens inside the legal framework, not outside it.
But what if you were drunk or high? You may not even recall what you did. You may see flashes. You may have a sense something went terribly wrong and not be able to process it all. Or you may know what you did. If this is your mindset, it doesn’t change the facts: accountability is overdue. Confession becomes the only way to stop the internal pressure. If that’s the case here, the most responsible thing to do for the victim, the family, the community, and even for yourself, is to come forward and tell the truth. Tell the story of what happened.
The next steps are straightforward and the same in every case. Anyone who wants to come clean needs to speak with a lawyer and turn themselves in through the proper channels. That’s how the system ensures due process, accurate information, and fair treatment. Coming forward doesn’t erase the crime, but it does allow the truth to be established in a lawful way. The justice system is built to handle these situations with structure, oversight, and accountability not chaos. If you are feeling overwhelmed, the most responsible thing to do is follow the legal process and let the truth come out.