And I hope you never find yourself in that situation. Choosing between your principles and a child's well-being if it does may not be as straight cut as you imagine. Being a grandparent brings on a whole world of responsibility that you hadn't even thought of. One of them being that, in the family dynamic, you are still considered the adult. Threads and threads of abused children that end up broken and thrown away and the first question that's asked is 'where was the family, didn't anyone see what was going on?' That would be us. The grown ups. The ones with years of experience raising children under our belts, as it would be seen. I don't think Jessica had children just to drop them in anyone's lap. If, as it would seem, there was drama in her life I expect it was a mutual decision for them to be taken out of it. I guess you have to face that hurdle to find out whether the reality would be how you'd imagined it.