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I think they are right when they say Kienan was brought back because of the plea.
I think Randall brought him back when he realized that this little boy did have a family who loved him, cared for him and missed him.
That even though his own family wouldn't have cared if he was abducted, this little boy had a family who did.
Is this the same mother who is doing the interviews? Or was he adopted?
http://www.calgaryherald.com/Randal...h+could+talk/5405920/story.html#ixzz1Y1wh09ki
Our views on these things are shaped by our experiences. That is why I have compassion for Randall when so many others don't.
I have seen the whole spectrum. Babies, kids and adults. Adored, loved, abused, neglected, starved, institutionalized, abandoned... all of it.
I have seen what kids like Randall can become if they are given to a loving adoptive family at birth.
I've seen what they can become when they are institutionalized... and I've seen the in-between like Randall.
When my daughter was born with Down syndrome family members reacted differently.
I had worked with kids with disabilities so I was more aware of the current reality and when I knew she was healthy, I was okay.
My Dad, was just thrilled to have a granddaughter.
My Mom, had worked in the state hospital with institutionalized adults and that was all she knew... she freaked out a little.
A family member who had aborted a child with Down syndrome that was due when my daughter was... has lost her family... attempted suicide.
Watching my daughter grow up, realizing what she is missing has haunted her. Her older children hate her for taking that away from them.
A family member who was adopting a child with Down syndrome celebrated, she was SO excited.
Another family member who institutionalized her "child" with Down syndrome when "it" was born... just won't acknowledge my daughter.
All of these people would react differently to Randall... as would people who haven't had experiences with people with disabilities.
I completely agree.
I also totally agree that he doesn't just need to be released because it's not his fault.
But he also doesn't need to be released into the general population like he's Ted Bundy.
He needs to be kept where he cannot hurt children. Where he can get treatment in a contained location. The public needs to be protected.
For the rest of his natural life. We need to make that happen for those who are incurable... and make it a true lifelong sentence.
LE appears to have compassion for Randall... which tells me something... there is a reason for that. Maybe they know he doesn't have evil intentions and just has never gotten the help he needs?
Such a great post! And I agree, for the rest of his natural life. Which means an insanity verdict if there is to be a chance of it happening.
Yet as you say..even LE has shown compassion or seemed to have.
We need to be protected from him, yet he needs protection from himself. Which is differently from how I see most child abductors.