So he raped her before using the BAM?
I ask because if she fought him and gave him those gauges, why wouldn’t he have just strangled her in his anger? Why use the BAM after?
And if he had used it before, she would have been unable to fight him or leave any gauges.
Barry is the one who volunteered that they'd had sex (granted he was trying to portray a happy marriage, all good, nothing to see here) but now there is evidence that Suzanne was all the way done with him. If there was sex, she didn't agree to it. And Barry didn't volunteer that Suzanne wanted a divorce, that Suzanne was hooking up with someone. He pretended that was all news to him.
Given what we've learned, and the BAM and the metabolizing, it gives solid credence to Barry running around the house and blowing through walls. I think it was important to Barry to end his marriage on "God's term" (till death), only where Barry is playing god. He needed to dominate her and a SA fits with that. Chargeable? No. There's no way to prove that now, it just would fit with someone who is chasing his wife and filled her with tranquilizer. He may have breached that bedroom door just in time to stop her from calling 911, failed attempt to open her phone, and it could well have been
with all the strength she had left that she clawed at his arm, in order to pull him away in order to (try to) breathe.
I do think that photo will be shown to the jury. And the jurors will decide what value to give it. Caused by branches or work? Or Suzanne's last communication before succumbing to sedation and death.
Barry had reason to lie about sex, we can't prove it now, if he assaulted her in that way, it's in keeping with philosophy of
possession so it's not entire science fiction. It would be just one more act of dominance on his part. Either way, it is my strong opinion that before Suzanne could no longer fight him off, she tried. With her nails. It's all she had. And then he took, in the worst way possible, her breath away.
You (generic you) think even one time in the past five years Barry has regretted anything? Wished he could have been a better man, husband, father, nothing he could have done to be better? But I'll bet he wishes Suzanne would have laid off the chemo, laid off the IPAs, laid off the "drugs and alcohol". Been a good wife. On his terms. Regardless of what Suzanne wanted.
JMO