Lhughessk
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I was speaking specifically regarding SandyQLS’s statement which indicated that relationship status wasn’t even in doubt and she accepted that PF no longer had a “significant other”. The discussion was whether PF, if innocent, had a duty to check on KB during that entire week she was gone. Kind of hard to debate the point when we couldn’t agree on relationship status.It is not true that there is no basis to speculate that the relationship was broken.
News stories written before the first press conference on December 10th were all describing an exchange of a child - whether the story had said Kelsey dropped off their child or has said that PF had picked up their child. Based on that alone is enough for a reasonable person to question why it seems their was some sort of custody exchange going on especially since it was occurring on a day that is a major holiday where couples and families spend them together.
Also, anyone reading the Missing page run by the family at that time would have seen the same thing. If anyone at that time also say Kelsey's aunt's post (even here at WS before it was removed) would have actually seen the words broken up.
Anyone listening to the first press conference would not only hear the word "exchange" used by the police chief when going through the time line. If you see the press release on the Woodland Park Police FB page immediately after that press conference where they made two clarifications.
If you listened to the second press conference from last Friday the police chief was asked about the custody situation (which goes to the relationship status) at the 6 minute mark:
Q. What was the custody arrangement like before Kelsey went missing/disappeared?
A. So, that is still going to be part of this investigation so I can't really comment on that
That press conference was 12 days after Kelsey was reported missing and even now another 6 days later there is no definitive statement as to what the true status of their relationship. This is the elephant in the room. There must be some reason why, after all this time, that none of the parties involved have any interest in clearing this matter up.
My instincts say that if they were broken up, and it had anything to do with some actions by PF, we would know about it. It would be part of the story by now. So the longer this goes on, the more and more likely it is that if they were broken up it has something to do with some actions by Kelsey and perhaps something that would paint her in a negative light. When we have her cousin quoted in the media that when this all comes out it will be a "long story" it only seems to point more in that direction. This story shouldn't be "long" when we are talking about a relationship that is between two and three years in length.
More importantly, if they were broken up and had been nothing but co-parents with no involvement with each other, other than to exchange their daughter, for a significant length of time (many months) that opens the door for someone else to have been involved with Kelsey.
So long as the elephant remains in the room speculation on the relationship status is completely valid.
There’s also the question of Websleuths rules. My understanding is that any speculation must have a basis in fact. News media using the term “custody” doesn’t do it - especially when many of them also use the term “fiancé”. And your reference to the aunt doesn’t qualify as a fact, either. For one, we can’t discuss FB stuff. Two, if something is posted and then deleted, it’s no longer valid for consideration. And three, we have no way of knowing if what she posted was accurate. It could have been faulty second-hand info. The fact that it would be posted and then quickly deleted should make it less trustworthy, not more.
Meanwhile, both CB and PF’s attorney have been on record that they were in an active relationship. CB even called it “good” and “strong”. Those are things that I believe we should give more weight, given who they are coming from and the direct or semi-direct nature of the quotes.
By the way, if they actually HAD broken up, and I was PF’s attorney, I would be getting out in front of the hoopla over his lack of involvement and saying, “My client and KB actually were no longer together romantically, and that is why he didn’t feel that checking up on her after the 25th was appropriate.” But the lawyer has not said that. Maybe he’s not a good lawyer. You don’t necessarily get a lot of good attorney options in a small town. I’ve lived it.