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Sure it is, when people say all the things she did wrong, or the reasons he may be mad enough to kill her, those are all victim blaming. When in reality, the only motive was his mental state, that was all him and had nothing to do with her. She could have been someone else and he still would have had whatever issues he has to make him kill someone. So people really need to lay off finding all the little things wrong that Kelsey did, and focus on the actual murderer.
I view people who start complaining "victim blaming" when anyone just assumes that Kelsey, a beautiful, hard-working, independent mom might have fallen of love with Patrick and had another relationship, as prejudiced and misogynistic as people who assume that having a child out of wedlock is shameful.
There is a totally different way of viewing the whole situation.
One feels sorry for this strong, hard-working, beautiful mom, commuting long hours every day, to her dream job, not moving anywhere closer to D.Aviation, because she was locked in this relationship with Patrick, for the sake of raising her daughter with both parents. One feels even more sorry for her if she loved this disgusting



Logic prompts me that she was too exhausted and isolated to even look for a relationship. But if we ever know that she had one, a good one, I shall be only happy for her. Imagine how tired she was, to raise a kid, to work, and to be stuck with this Patrick, who, instead of gratitude for a child, thought of nothing better than killing baby K' s mother. One wishes that KB met a really deserving man instead.