I couldn't tell really, it was just an inkling. I have lots of gay friends and have gotten good at what they call "gaydar." LOL I just got that feeling from him, his mannerisms, the way he got beefed up and the way he carried himself in the videos and pics I saw. I live in NC - he and SW were from here and it's the Bible belt, especially the smaller towns where they are from, and homosexuality is still frowned upon in those circles unfortunately. I live in a bigger, a little more liberal area, but still see it a lot and my gay friends experience that discrimination daily.