How could you tell he was in the closet?
I never got any vibes that he was into guys as well.
While not directed at me, gosh that’s so hard to explain unless you lived it personally.
I saw a few on here comment on this before (I didn’t dare chime in because I just didn’t feel like defending my thoughts or own experiences by some honestly on THIS particular board).
My ex and I were together for 15 years. He was married previously with two kids. He was in the USN, and from a very strict Catholic family. We went through five years of on and off being physically separated because of his military duties. I was born in USA khaki diapers, so got it.
I still can’t tell anyone to this day how I knew. And I did NOT know until we were in divorce negotiations (with only a house/property to divide). It just was like a light bulb to me and he finally admitted that 3/4 of the 17 people he cheated on me with, were men. No, I didn’t know, or SEE it until the end, and me and my family to this day still don’t fully understand the root cause or the why. Yet, even when I discovered and confronted, he didn’t murder me. Oh, and he well could’ve as I also had two physically weakening diseases and could not have fought back.
I actually talked him through it at the time because I just want everyone to just be their true selves. I did, he did.... yet he still screwed me in divorce proceedings on the property. It took NINE years in FL for the peroprty to finally be foreclosed on. He cheated the system in EVERY way. Reeling back in....
My point is, you just NEVER know. Never, IMO.
But as I look back and compared to CW, so many likenesses stand out now. It’s tough because zi was one that started following when she was still missing. I was watching his interviews then BAM, reports of confession. ALL in videos have already been analyzed ten times over here.
I went though all this personally during Scott/Laci. I still remember having all my in laws over to our 5BR house in FL for that Christmas Eve/Christmas. Ugh, so many similarities, ONLY WORSE.