Knowledgeable and well-spoken expert in the field. Have learned a lot from just watching her vids.
Yeah one of you all turned me on to her.
Knowledgeable and well-spoken expert in the field. Have learned a lot from just watching her vids.
You could be right, but I have to ask, have you ever watched any other MLM videos/testimonials?I think that is the understatement of the year in regards to her misreading his personality. For someone like me and I am going to guess SW as well as nothing has been written about either of her parents being abusive, these traits are absolutely foreign to you. Never met them and wouldn't recognize them if you had in fact. All she has to judge CW on would be her experiences in her life and any gut feelings she may have had about him. In hindsight had she been allowed the luxury of living (sarc) and we asked her if there any signs something was not right with him, she would be able to give us a laundry list of habits, occurences etc which in and of their own mean nothing but taken as a whole would have painted a clearer picture of who he was.
Something I was struck by when listening to her testimonial when considering her chose of words, observing her overall demeanor and body language I came away with a strong impression of how simple she really was. I don't mean that as insult as in simple minded rather, uncomplicated and very easily read. To me anyway. I believe she was a very sincere woman and after viewing her tape saw the very real and vulnerable side of her. Whereas in the short snippets of tape she sounded like a very confident young woman after being able to watch 30 consecutive minutes of her unrehearsed speech, I saw other aspects of her not readily available in the short clips.
I was able to feel the tension she had in her life as well as possible fear in her voice and body language. She was not as nonchalant as I previously believed. Her sensitivity and gentleness came through very clearly. In her attempt to convince others of how to gain control of one's life I shook my head that she actually went outside to say her current chain of thought out loud. Prior to it she had touched on negativity but didn't really elaborate too much on it. When she whisked out to her back deck she revealed what I believe to be a very real aspect of her own life not only that day but MANY days in recent years. She discusses how one needs to tune out the negative aspects or NEGATIVE PEOPLE in their life and despite their words basically soldier on and move forward confident in your path. I can't recall verbatim how she said this all but at one point she even appears to want to say that she is feeling the same with CW but decides not to. I still need to watch it again but it did stand out to me right away. It was also VERY familiar to me to have to leave the room to discuss something honestly and openly which applies to your own partner. Something tells me more then once she accused him of being a very negative person and it was a real trigger for him, so much so she felt she needed to live his immediate vacinity to keep him from hearing her even say the word.
So yes, there is imo some factual fluffery SW used in her posts that on the surface may have appeared to be outright lies if you believe as I do that CW is a negative and narcissistic person. However, I do not take it as an outright lie used to intentionally mislead people or even to inflect some false image of her perfect life, rather I see it as SW using the fluffery to once again stroke CW's very fragile ego by not stating the fact that she lived with the most negative person YET I MANAGE to have come this far. If I can you can. I think the girl is real and VERY open about who she is and does not fear showing her own imperfections but clearly has made a habit of making a conscious effort to protect her narcississtic husband's over inflated ego which is easily damaged. Big difference and is also indicative of a person who is very thoughtful and caring towards OTHER people who have NOT been so open about their weaknesses and faults rather choosing to mislead people about who they really are. Ya know like all their friends thinking he was a nice guy just quiet. Yep, I'm sure he was around THEM.
As I said earlier when I saw his mugshot. I literally said outloud "well Hello there Chris" because the mask was finally off for all to see his true self. Finally we were introduced to the angry, unhappy, negative individual that is actually quite menacing looking for a punk @ss. The very face he hid from everyone else. SW saw that face long before he killed her I will bet money on that. She went outside to finish her video to make sure she didn't say anything in earshot that would provoke a situation where she would once again see that face in HER face.
And I think that that is why so many are quick to victim blame. They can remove that threat from themselves because they would do nothing to cause it.
He reminds me more of RH than he reminds me of Drew Peterson. Or do I mean Scott? Dammit, I can never remember which is which.
Wow, it does. RH was bi-sexual too, wasn't he?I totally feel you, I was obsessed. I live in Marietta, GA, 15 minutes from where it all went down. I eat at that Chick-fil-A once a week. I have several friends who work at that Home Depot corporate office. I will never, ever forget it.
Does CW give you a Ross Harris vibe at all? With the double life and all. I feel they are eerily similar.
Taint the jury pool?
I agree she does look sad and defeated somehow.The picture of SW in AZ having dinner with her friends...I don’t know why, maybe because she was feeling sick, but she looks sad.
Apparently lived in CO though.This guy is from Wyoming. I’m not buying his story. JMO
I agree she does look sad and defeated somehow.
I wouldn't have pegged RH as an RH type, lol!As more and more stuff is surfacing, yes. I'm shocked though, because initially, I wouldn't have pegged CW as an RH type. CW seems more aloof and shy, while RH was outgoing and confident.
Makes me think the weight loss opened up a narcissistic side in CW that was kept at bay.
Aside from being sexually conflicted (I would like some actual proof) I agree.We don't know what NU-A was told by SW on that final trip to Arizona so it is hard to speculate whether SW discovered the homosexual activity that weekend trip or that morning she died.
How would SW have found out about the affair whether male or female or both? When would she have found out? I can't imagine CW leaving his phone on the kitchen counter for when she arrived back at 1:48 am and he likely had it password protected.
I do see CW losing control if he was discovered by SW to have been having a homosexual affair because CW seems to me to be over compensating and living a secret while hiding his sexual identity. CW is a nerd at the core, with low self esteem and having an alpha wife which is no disrespect to SW but may have been impossible for CW to deal with. It probably emasculated him having such an outgoing and driven wife whereas he was so sexually conflicted internally, anti social and living his SW's shadow.
Do you have the pic?Yes, I don’t know why, but that image is stuck in my head. Maybe it’s because I know it’s one of, if not, the last picture she ever took. Or maybe she sensed something was wrong back at home.
Oh, that breaks my heart. This whole uncalled for massacre of innocents breaks my heart. He really could've just walked away. It really and truly would've been easier on him.
I agree, I think is one of the last photos of SW. She looked tired and sad ~ probably keeping a lot inside.Yes, I don’t know why, but that image is stuck in my head. Maybe it’s because I know it’s one of, if not, the last picture she ever took. Or maybe she sensed something was wrong back at home.
Do you have the pic?
And I think your last sentence might be right on. I wonder if she discussed any family problems with her friend NU on her way home.
As more and more stuff is surfacing, yes. I'm shocked though, because initially, I wouldn't have pegged CW as an RH type. CW seems more aloof and shy, while RH was outgoing and confident.
Makes me think the weight loss opened up a narcissistic side in CW that was kept at bay.
Wow, it does. RH was bi-sexual too, wasn't he?
(I remember your dedication all throughout trial, NCteacher)