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Not everyone here believes he is a narcissist. None of us are qualified to make that determination about someone we don't even know.People think he was the narcissist but It was never him.
Not everyone here believes he is a narcissist. None of us are qualified to make that determination about someone we don't even know.People think he was the narcissist but It was never him.
I would agree with you 100%, but I work in HR and once I had a man call me asking me if his wife had requested today off work because he expected her back from overseas the previous day and she didn't show up! Nothing fails to surprise me now. It turned out they just didn't communicate well.To address the before or after, I would like to know if he did FlightAware or something like that is most everybody I know does. It tells you when the plane takes off. Even if she did not call, which I think she would is any spouse would when you are three hours late, he could check on when her Landing was. That is my confusion, is I can't imagine anybody did not know when their spouse was going to arrive and not check on such.
Sadly, this isn’t a new phenomenon. We are just more aware of this type of thing now.What in the world is causing this??
I don't think he's a narcissist. I have my own, unqualified, diagnosis of him, but it's not narcissist. I do see him as passive-aggressive and I wonder if that fits his personality according to those who know him.Not everyone here believes he is a narcissist. None of us are qualified to make that determination about someone we don't even know.
The new poster said, iirc, "Ask me anything you want" Paraphrased. Then he/she said they were aware of the affair from the beginning. Logical question from me, When did it begin? Fire, kitchen, etc.You guys better chill or else you're going to run off a potential verified insider and we'll lose any opportunity to learn more about the case.
The new poster said, iirc, "Ask me .Anything you want" .Paraphrased. Then he/she said they were aware of the affair from the beginning .Logical question from me, When did it begin? Fire, kitchen, etc.
Howdy - I have been keeping track of this thread, and others and decided it is time to join in. I have always been interested in this kind of stuff.
That's the big question I have: why didn't CW just ask for a divorce and leave? Yes, people would have thought he was callous to leave his wife whilst she was pregnant, and he may have struggled a bit financially, but at least his kids and wife would still be alive and he'd be free to pursue new relationships etc. But to murder your wife and kids instead of having the guts to file for divorce? Defies all logic.Why didn't he just leave then? Was he expecting her to leave the house for him to stay in?
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It's odd but THE first impression I got from watching him was that he did not like his youngest child at all.I understand your point... but perhaps we should not assume he actually loved his children at the point in time he killed them. It is possible that he had emotionally disengaged from them (and Shannan) in the months leading to the killing.
But we are not learning any more about the case just his/her feelings about things.Basically. Yes.
You guys better chill or else you're going to run off a potential verified insider and we'll lose any opportunity to learn more about the case.
And, if he had been begging her for a separation, why the happy family pics of him picking up her and the girls from the airport?
Why so certain - did you live with them?I can say with absolute certainty there was never any domestic violence.
I thought people wanted tYou keep saying that you want to share who they are but you are not telling us anything other than that you believe him.
The man who lied about where his children were after he had dumped them in crude oil.
The man who laughed and grinned when giving interviews about his dead children..
The man who lied about having an affair.
And you believe his version of events? Why would you believe a word he says?
And I do not get your criticism of her pretending she led a perfect life, when you are trying to convince us he was a perfect husband and father.
Wouldn't a woman with a perfect husband be leading a perfect life.
no actually they did not. He was arrested on the 15th. It was released 5 days later. He never confessed to all 3.BBM, not true. They released it almost immediately then redacted some parts of it.
thats good to hear.Not everyone here believes he is a narcissist. None of us are qualified to make that determination about someone we don't even know.
I honestly thought this was a safe forum and non bullying
Personal feelings based upon interaction are insight in my opinion that’s why family and friends are interviewedBut we are not learning any more about the case just his/her feelings about things.
Then why would he pose for the happy pics. You cannot make someone do that.Well I think he or she is saying that Shanann posted "happy" photos to hide the fact that the marriage had issues and he wanted out. And maybe she or he is trying to say Shanann refused to let him go?