I'm just hopping off your post, just for the subject of dominance. Without giving out personal info regarding Shanann, I can give my experience. I was married to someone very similar to CW. I was the outgoing, social one. He was fine with being in the background, or so I thought. Not long after we married, I found out when he made that same face that CW made in pictures, I knew I would be in trouble when we got home. A screaming match would ensue. So, as much as outwardly I was the dominant person, at home, he was a total control freak. No one knew this, until after my divorce. Until the day of the divorce, people thought we were the perfect couple.
In no way am saying this is true of them, but, it could very well be. As I stated, I never even told my best friend or family what I had to put up with. Just something to think about. Looks can be decieving.