What a very sincere, thoughtful post @LaineyJ I’m finally making progress on working through some of my deep sadness over this case. I spent days just teary-eyed. Once the realization sets in she’s definitely gone, no longer breathing, I can focus on the criminal elements and hope to figure out a way she can be found. I’m still very sad and concerned for the girls. I doubt seriously if they would reach out to a DV victim’s advocate, but they are victims. And I understand why DV was added to the charges, the court isn’t stating there was “physical DV” just that DV is added when there has been an intimate relationship between the victim and the accused. well, I’m rambling. Sorry about that. MOO
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I highly suspect he didn’t reserve that line of thinking for just voter fraud. It speaks to everything he did and didn’t do in his personal and professional life. I bet he “cheats” at everything. He’s Barry Morphew. He’s entitled.The fact that he has invoked “Christianity” to make himself appear pious and innocent is absolutely repugnant. His words disgust me and are an insult to his murdered wife, her loving family and the beauty of HER faith, which likely, and sadly, is what kept her with him way too long. Always loving, always forgiving, always hoping HER love and faith could make him see the light and change his selfish ways. He never understood the jewel he had in Suzanne. All MOO.
YES!! Exactly what I was hoping; because it is an entirely different case, i'm not positive it will be shared. I'm hopeful this information will be shared during the trial for the 5 charges including Murder 1 with premeditation.
Here you go, it's been published several places but here is one.
So true! He even uses his own children! Such a pathetic, soulless, shallow man. How can he claim to love them when he murdered their loving mother and continues to deceive them and take advantage of their love? He is so jealous of Suzanne’s family he even wants to deprive his daughters of THEIR love, the very family they should be able to turn to now for support to help and guide them through this nightmare. If he had any soul at ALL, he would admit to what he has done and allow his children and Suzanne’s family the right to give Suzanne the burial and honour she deserves and afford them a small measure of peace. Maybe I should write him a letter, however, I doubt anything would prick his conscience.
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I will agree the motivation was financial, but I think it had been brewing for some time and had reached critical mass. I feel the impending sale of the IN property was going to reveal a major financial shortfall, perhaps a large Line of Credit (maxed out) secured against the property that needed to be satisfied upon sale that Suzanne was unaware of. Add to that, Barry’s willingness to defraud the government by applying for a loan he was not entitled to, likely gave Suzanne concern if she found out or perhaps she would also be implicated in the fraud as an “officer” of the business LLC. MM made a remark about “living within one’s means.” Perhaps Suzanne had come to terms with the fact that BM had been putting on a show and had them living BEYOND what they could truly afford all the while working day and night, or so he said. We also have no idea what kind of insurance coverage they had for her cancer treatments. Add to that a daughter in college, living away from home, a business that may not have taken off in CO, fancy house, fancy cars, fancy clothes, fancy vacations. Fancy that! Just a whole lot of money being spent with only one income. According to MM, the relationship had been in decline for a few years. Financial stress will do that especially if one partner is unwilling to face up to the impending disaster.
