I'm not sure that BM was always a thief. He had a hometown Hero reputation. Being a thief would ruin his family's good name within the community to which his father would likely disown him.
It seems BM developed a good work ethic as a youngster by earning his own spending money by chopping wood and selling skins, as much as many of us detest the very thought of laying a filet knife to a small animal. Daniel Boone did it. And, in my family, we use a filet knife after we go floundering, by example. Hard to beat the flavor from dining on fresh flounder, jmho. The difference may be found in that Barry didn't eat the meat from raccoons.
Something changed in Barry, although I'm not sure when exactly. Was it after leaving O Canada or during college years at Purdue or when his father passed away and was no longer able to keep BM toeing the line? After all of years of killing animals, his heart grew cold as ice. BM grew weary of conforming to standards as an adult. Not sure what it was, maybe a combination of things, but something along the way made him into a psychopath. JMHOO
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IMHO, Barry's failure to make it in the MLB may have been a turning point. The Alexandria Times-Tribune newspaper headline said "Barry Morphew Drafted by Toronto Blue Jays." It really screams of "small town boy succeeds."
The article goes on to say, "He greeted the call with a mixure of elation and anxiety. Although obviously pleased with the opportunity to turn pro, Morphew is unsure how the draft will affect his college plans." Evidently, he ultimately decided to forego the college plans and pursue the MLB dream. Did he regret that decision?
So, during 1986 and 1987, he was with a Blue Jays farm team, but no confirmation on the reason for leaving. I'd be really curious to understand what happened when he returned home. Was he greeted with disappointment (his dad? others?)? Suzanne would have still been in high school at that time.
Looks like they stayed together as a couple, and she went on to Perdue, as did he (although I've seen previous posts on whether he graduated) and they got married in 1994.
His dad passed away in 2006; yes, that may have been a turning point as well, but in MOO, I think it was earlier.