Warning: Some, or all, of this will likely be unpopular but here it is..
1. I will NOT give SM and JL a "pass" for having an affair. I do not think it's ok because she maybe didn't feel so lonely, had someone who really loved her, or any of the other carp being thrown around here. If they were both married with children, they should have left their marriages first and THEN been together.
That said, it also doesn't provide any excuse at all for her murder and has really nothing to do with the case that I can see except fodder for the defense and social media trolls. Judgement of JL and his actions has already started. I, for one, think the affair was wrong but I will wait for more info before deciding about anything else re: JL. I do know this: BM's actions impacted more lives than we even thought possible.
2. I certainly hope the prosecution has ALOT more than we've seen so far. Because as it stands right now, they have nada. I know everyone keeps saying to wait, we have more days, etc. But honestly I'm concerned. This doesn't seem to be a solid case at this point.