- Joined
- Jul 31, 2015
- Messages
- 9,938
- Reaction score
- 80,582
Positive thoughts to your family as well in OH.
On the personal side, we take it seriously, follow recommendations, and know we do our best. We choose not to live a life of fear.
As for the family members, I learned several years ago that I can not carry the weight of others decisions. I lost someone very close to me after years of trying to convince the individual to do this or that because I could see the path they were on was going to end in unfortunate circumstances.
If I could go back and do it all over again, I would spend more time simply loving rather than judging, and embrace the time together by laughing and talking rather than pushing my opinion. It didn’t change the outcome, and many years of memories are based on my trying to get the person help. I see the vaccination discussion in the same light.
I made a conscious decision not to go down that road again. So, I don’t talk vaccines or try to push my opinion on the individuals I love because I know I can’t change their mind. They are aware of the news, and have to choose to get vaccinated by having their own ‘ah ha’ moment.
I, too, choose to not be vile and judgmental. It really does nothing for humanity. Thank you for posting this.