It is heartbreaking. I remember my college years, parties, dorm living, dances, casual friendships. None of that is really part of campus life now. Sure, live in the dorm, straight to your room with your mask. Don't forget to get tested each week. Do you have your vaccine card?
My daughter had to eat alone, at a table in the cafeteria. Everyone at their own isolated table. No wonder she was done with "college life". Go to your room, alone, hook up to your online class. The whole experience was crushing her. The way she described it at Christmas made it sound more like solitary confinement in a prison.
She is working full-time now, living in an apartment. Maybe she will go back. Or not.
The same with my granddaughter, she completed her first entire year of college online, in her dorm room. Meals in the room, still paying full price for the education. She didn't return and waited until she was fully vaccinated, went to work at a fast food place. That was more educational for her than college, about the human race. The people screaming at her because they didn't think the cup size was correct (all the cups) , whatever they could do or insult the employees, they did. Treated horribly by customers. All drive through, dining area closed.
She had cried to me one evening a few years ago because she was 17 and never been kissed. I told her it could be the other way and she could be 17 and a baby on her hip. lol. She has met a wonderful young man, oddly enough a friend of her best friends boyfriend who saw her on their Instagram. They met, instantly fell in love. He's first generation Hispanic here in the states. They are the same age, he might be a few months younger.
They all caught COVID before Thanksgiving, all vaxxed. His father died, very hard to deal with at any stage of life, harder in youth, IMO. They have went forward to getting an apartment, he will continue his education and she got a job cleaning at the automotive plant for $20.00 an hour. Absolutely loves it, she said no one is screaming at her, she does her job and goes home. Four days a week, time and a half for 2 of the days.
This generation, it's going to be the one to watch I believe. They have a great deal of anxiety and have seen, experienced so much at one time. Things are changing, our lives aren't going to be the same again, or I should say lifestyle. She is doing a writing class online.
Who knows what's going to happen but these kids have seen a great deal in a short amount of time. Illness, death, seclusion, protests, politics, crime, 24 hour social media, and they are taking notes.