These are really good points and helpful to me in sorting out my own views on reopening. The comparison to flu is especially cogent.
Basically, even as a person at risk, I am ready for more opening up. But, the way I'm thinking about it, I do have ways of protecting myself, including new behaviors that people are just going to have to chalk up to me being eccentric. I really don't want to get CoVid. At least not now, not until some of the newer treatments are available, which I reckon will be next year some time - so that's how long I intend to self-quarantine, with a couple of modifications to permit me to see my younger daughter/granddaughter. Even if we can't hug.
The thing is, here in SoCal, we're starting to see the usual unemployment related crime go down, on steroids this time. Home invasions are up, here in my neighborhood people are reporting on Nextdoor that there are at least two men wandering around impersonating SoCalGas meter readers (SoCalGas doesn't have meter readers in our area). These men are approaching women alone in their yards, gardening, or moms in the yard with kids. One neighbor found one of these guys in his backyard, and the guy then pretended to be a meter reader (they have SoCalGas shirts - but not the type currently worn by meter repair persons). In addition, there are some random door-to-door "salesmen" (not legal here), who are clearly not from our area and are simply casing and peering into people's homes. It's an older neighborhood, about half of us are over 60.
This is only going to get worse.
Thank you,
@The Night Watchman for continuing this productive dialogue. I am actually looking forward to the next phase of this terrible pandemic. People who are going out in droves choose that for themselves. In California, it's disproportionately San Diego, Imperial and Orange Counties - all adjacent to each other, who are driving our case/mortality rate up, with Los Angeles County continuing to be a hard place to control the contagion. We still don't have a high mortality rate compared to the rest of the US. Restaurants still haven't opened in San Diego (I haven't seen
@KALI recently, but my heart goes out to her), and the requirements for reopening are indeed pretty specific. It's a tense situation. I don't want any more people to lose jobs or go out of business.
I want a new normal where we can protect ourselves but not at the expense of the collapse of entire industries or communities. There's gotta be a way.