Hey Tabitha, I get what your saying but from the other direction. My dad is 88 this month and he was a lot like Trump in that he did not take the virus seriously. He said he had seen virus's and bacterial infections come and go many many times and they just go away, no big deal. This was mid-March before the official shut down orders. The 3 of us in my home were already not going out unless necessary but my dad was socializing like crazy as he always does. (He is young for his age).
He wanted me to come over on Friday March 20th but my son was afraid I shouldn't go because grandpa was "running" around. Tuesday March 17th my dad had plans to go to a large St. Patrick's day get-together at a popular
pub (as they say in Great Britain) and I asked him not to go.
He scoffed at me that there is "nothing to worry about." Well my son was worried that's for sure and I told my son OK, maybe I wouldn't go see grandpa Friday - I was stuck in the middle between my dad and son.
So guess what happened? On the morning of March 17th, the Governor of my State declared that all restaurants and bars and other places would be shut down. So my dad did not get to go to his St. Patrick's celebration and be amongst crowds. I went to see him that Friday with a sigh of relief!
Then a curious thing occured....this is true....
Cool Cats is a straight shooter. Both my son and I had plans with my dad for us both to come over the following week. So the day before we were going to come over my dad called me and said my son shouldn't come because he had to be cautious of Covid-19.
I was surprised to say the least considering it was my son who originally did not want he or I to go over to my dad's house and my dad always wants to see his grandson and complains he does not see him enough.
Since then my dad has been cautious and even has used masks that his neighbor gives him.
I don't know how he is going to respond now that things are opening back up. Will he continue from where he left off and socialize all over the place again? Or will he be more cautious? Guess I will find out this Friday when I go see him again!
During the 3 month shut down my dad said that his neighbor disapproved of me coming over to see him. He told his neighbor that he wanted to see me and it's "
worth the risk." Basically he told the neighbor to "back off." After that (to this day) the neighbor has been bringing food over for me and my dad when she sees my car in my dad's driveway.
Well hope I didn't bore you'all with my family story! I enjoy reading you'alls personal stories....
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