I just had a thought, maybe this has come up before and I missed it. I wonder if the original plan for FD and KM was to make it look like JD and KM's wife disappeared together. JD and KM's wife may have been friends because there was the name Kent in in the preview of one of her blog posts that was never archived. This is the preview
Getting to know me
January 15, 2012
Last night we went out with some friends from here who we’ve gotten to know first through Fotis’s business. An extremely kind, upstanding couple, we just really admire and like them. I really like the wife, and she has read the blog and last night, even though I normally love to hear Fotis and Kent [...]
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