Silver Alert CT- Jennifer Dulos, 50, New Canaan, 24 May 2019 #10 *ARRESTS*

[indicolite22]

He was one of many of super motivated alpha types, charming, with a foreign accent and supposedly with a high likelihood to succeed and achieve. But the overall profile of crazy fetish for water skiing, insistence on the high end building trade after working in a company, shows a real entitlement, special and narcissistic attitude. Some say that the NY area is the land of smiling assassins, there are certainly a fair number that worship money and fame with weak consciences.

I'd like to know at what point murder becomes a realistic way of solving people's problems. I don't see anything ominous in FD's career path as such. Many people are obsessed with sports, but they won't kill.

 

[citygirl]

How in the world are they able to spot anything in that? I can’t comprehend how truly awful work this is and I admire them all so much - I still believe something significant led them to search this intensely - thanks all for posting today’s news I’ve updated the media thread

And they are putting in 15 hours a day. They took Father's Day off and that was it! Did you notice they weren't wearing masks? They must be going through jars of Vick's under their noses. MOO.

 

[MsArk]

And they are putting in 15 hours a day. They took Father's Day off and that was it! Did you notice they weren't wearing masks? They must be going through jars of Vick's under their noses. MOO.

They are very dedicated to this. Much much respect.

 

[MsBetsy]

In CT, could they not get a divorce in those two years they were separated even though the child custody or property division was not worked out?

A temporary ruling is in place, however, the couple is free of each other and can date or marry.

In CT, the grounds and procedure for separation are the same as for divorce.
I assumed they just filed for divorce since at least Jennifer seemed sure she wanted to divorce him.
I think the custody issues and property division is part of the reason it took so long. If the parties cannot come to a reasonable decision then the courts will decide for them, which is what apparently happened in this case.

So maybe it was not until the decision was made by the courts that they finally declared them free to marry? I really don't know.

Either way, I'm not sure why FD's lawyer stated that things were turning in his favor regarding the divorce.
It seems to me that he was resentful of the courts decision to only allow him supervised visitation with his kids.
He may have been free to marry, but initially he wanted both his wife and girlfriend under the same roof so he still wasn't getting his way. Imo

 

[MsBetsy]

He knew her at Brown; I’m sure he’s known since college that her family was wealthy. Maybe he thought wife #1 would be the goldmine, and when she turned out not to be, he started planning. I know I read somewhere that they were acquainted in college; I wonder if they dated at all there. Otherwise it seems a little weird to run into someone you barely know from college and start reacquainting-especially while you are married. I think he knew she was wealthy, and she was his goal before they even ran into each other the first time.

Yes, from everything we have learned he appears to be a social climber and I bet he would not have left Jennifer before he had something else lined up.

But she was about to ruin all that so she had to go. Imo

 

[MsBetsy]

I'd like to know at what point murder becomes a realistic way of solving people's problems. I don't see anything ominous in FD's career path as such. Many people are obsessed with sports, but they won't kill.

All the warning signs were there, though. That he pushed his children to achieve success is just one example out of many. He seems to fit the profile for a psychopath who kills for revenge and personal gain. Imo

 

[indicolite22]

Maybe the first time around, he married for love and second time
he married for money.
Did he learn from his first mistake?
First wife was atty in the financial world, totally different than JD.
JD mentioned in her blog that she met him the first week of school at Brown. doesn't sound like they really dated.
these type guys don't usually leave the current paramour til they've lined up their replacement. Very common tactic.
I think they're the co-dependent type, always needing a mate to
boost their little fragile ego.

I think FD and his first wife were coworkers. Is it known when the marriage broke down? He might have dated other women before picking JD. I was surprised at the civility of his fist divorce. His ego must not have been hurt - it was him who initiated the divorce.
According to JD, she and FD had a special bond in college. She trusted him when they reconnected.

 

[indicolite22]

All the warning signs were there, though. He seems to fit the profile for a psychopath who kills for revenge and personal gain. Imo

To me the warning signs weren't about his career choices or his passion for sports, but his controlling/threatening behavior and vengefulness. These can occur in people from all walks of life.

 

[indicolite22]

Yes, from everything we have learned he appears to be a social climber and I bet he would not have left Jennifer before he had something else lined up.

But she was about to ruin all that so she had to go. Imo

But he had MT lined up. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too (with a wife and a girlfriend). Had JD not filed for divorce, I wonder if MT was ready to be the eternal girlfriend. Maybe she didn't care.

 

[MsBetsy]

To me the warning signs weren't about his career choices or his passion for sports, but his controlling/threatening behavior and vengefulness. These can occur in people from all walks of life.

Yes, his controlling and abusive behavior when pushing his children to succeed in his preferred sport is a perfect example.
It's true that people in all walks of life can exhibit this type of behavior, but it is especially true of Narcissists who care primarily about themselves with no regard for the feelings of others.
His passion to succeed at his career at the expense of others is another example. He needed to use others in order to get ahead. Imo

 

[indicolite22]

All the warning signs were there, though. That he pushed his children to achieve success is just one example out of many. He seems to fit the profile for a psychopath who kills for revenge and personal gain. Imo

Plenty of pushy parents out there. To most, murder doesn't cross their mind.

 

[MemPat]

I believe there was a purpose in LE mentioning MT 'hanging' her
head out the truck window.

I think LE is trying to show MT objecting to the stench of the
blood/remains smell of the bags in the pickup bed. She was
hanging her head out the window to avoid the smell.

It had been close to 12 hours since JD's death. The blood/body
was beginning to decompose and deteriorate. The smell was
there. No way to bag it and hide it. And a warm day. Sorry
to be so graphic, but this will come out at trial.
Murder and death is a sickening proposition.

My thoughts exactly!

 

[MsBetsy]

But he had MT lined up. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too (with a wife and a girlfriend). Had JD not filed for divorce, I wonder if MT was ready to be the eternal girlfriend. Maybe she didn't care.

Yes, that's what I meant by his not having his way. He wanted to keep control of both of them, but when he realized it wasn't going to work and JD became a threat to his relationship with his children, she had to go. Imo

 

[MemPat]

This quote jumped at me in reference to the search at MIRA:
“It’s been a lot of hard work for the detectives,” Foley said. “I think they all would agree that their efforts have been worth it.”

This says to me that they have worked tirelessly and found plenty more evidence in the 28 bags that were not recovered before they went to MIRA.

Jennifer Dulos search: ‘There are still unknowns’ in Hartford trash

I was glad to see this "signal" from LE, perhaps a slap back at Pattis for his nonsensical comments.

It never seemed necessary that they find more crime scene clean-up in the remaining garbage but it wouldn't hurt if they found even a little bit more DNA. I think they did.

 

[indicolite22]

Yes, his controlling and abusive behavior when pushing his children to succeed in his preferred sport is a perfect example.
It's true that people in all walks of life can exhibit this type of behavior, but it is especially true of Narcissists who care primarily about themselves with no regard for the feelings of others.
His passion to succeed at his career at the expense of others is another example. He needed to use others in order to get ahead. Imo

That is all true. What I'm trying to say is that a personality type/trait itself isn't enough to push someone to murder.

 

[MsBetsy]

Plenty of pushy parents out there. To most, murder doesn't cross their mind.

True, but he is not like "most" parents.
It's the sum of all the parts that make him capable of murder, not just the fact that he pushed his children towards success to the point of causing them psychological damage. That's just one small detail that makes up the whole. Imo

 

[MemPat]

Yes, like Sheeple.
Certain cases have so much minute scientific evidence that many
'average IQ' or lower people have a hard time following the case.

DNA is one of those subjects that can be difficult to understand.
So it's paramount that attorney know the kind of jurors they
want on the panel. I find jury selection fascinating and it's becoming such a studied science.

One thing working for the DA in this case is the fact that people (aka potential jurors) watch lots of TV these days and they expect DNA evidence.

In fact, prosecutors say it's increasingly hard to win a case with just circumstantial evidence and no DNA.

Looks like we have DNA out the wazoo (legal term!) against FD.

He's toast!

 

[MsBetsy]

That is all true. What I'm trying to say is that a personality type/trait itself isn't enough to push someone to murder.

That's true, but more often than not, it is a fact that people with ASPD are more capable of murder. I'm not saying he has been diagnosed, but from everything we have seen he certainly seems to have the traits of a Psychopath or at least a Narcissistic Personality. Imo

 

[indicolite22]

Yes, that's what I meant by his not having his way. He wanted to keep control of both of them, but when he realized it wasn't going to work and JD became a threat to his relationship with his children, she had to go. Imo

His children reportedly adored him, but he wasn't allowed to manipulate them any more. I don't think she would be able to take the kids away from him permanently though. If you took (her family) money out of the equation, I wonder if FD would still have wanted JD dead?

 

[Chessman]

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Update from
@CT_STATE_POLICE
: Investigations at MIRA trash plant not over. Said they believe they’re “going in the right direction.” Can’t comment on what’s been found. Investigators and K9’s have been in there everyday. No comment on other locations in investigation.
@FOX61News

A month after the disposal, over 30 bags of clean up debris. What was it, one or two that were recovered? Don't they have an incinerator for the trash?