DC DC - Relisha Tenau Rudd, 8, SE DC, 26 Feb 2014 - #8

[Just K]

Volunteers Search for Relisha Rudd: “We Don’t Believe in Too Little Too Late”



http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/...-rudd-we-dont-believe-in-too-little-too-late/

One good thing to do would be to get her flyer up at or very near every no-tel motel from PG County to Richmond. And to every quick mart and 7-11 within walking distance of those motels. (Starting with Rt 301 to Rt 1/Richmond Hwy/Jefferson Davis HWY.)

 

[Guidedbyfaith]

Article about Relisha's search last Saturday if interested.

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/...-rudd-we-dont-believe-in-too-little-too-late/

 

[Solitaryone]

I still want to know why none of them, SY, AW, AY or MYT will admit to being the last one with Relisha. And why do they trip all over each other and themselves when March 1 is brought up? What do they know? None of them have blamed KLT once! When KLT was found dead, I expected them to all point their fingers at him, but they didn't and have still not done so. Why? I think they know what happened to Relisha. I also think RSL is deeply involved in all this, and does anyone here think that RSL is one of the reasons besides covering their own a$$e$ that none of them will tell the truth about what happened to Relisha?

 

[Just K]

If they all agree that they all participated in her leaving multiple times, for sometimes several days at a time, with KT then why won't someone own up to being the one who handed her off last?

Perhaps, because he did bring her back for the brother's/uncles party on March 7th or 8th and something happened to Relisha on one of the family member's watch. Maybe, they are all fronting for each other by blaming the other and covering their own behinds in the process.

 

[branwynbreeze]

Posting and flagging in case a no no. If I remember, 4 (or 5) people and 3 cars were at motel night AT died. KT, AT, RL and ? Trying to wrap my head around it. Was it some sort of meeting? Was AT already deceased?

Also, anyone know about how long KT was dead when he was found? Less than 24 hours, 48, 72? Has it been proven he took his own life?

I think it's very strange and scary that LE posts footage of RR entering room, but not exiting, I'd love to see that footage.

 

[baltolady]

I still want to know why none of them, SY, AW, AY or MYT will admit to being the last one with Relisha. And why do they trip all over each other and themselves when March 1 is brought up? What do they know? None of them have blamed KLT once! When KLT was found dead, I expected them to all point their fingers at him, but they didn't and have still not done so. Why? I think they know what happened to Relisha. I also think RSL is deeply involved in all this, and does anyone here think that RSL is one of the reasons besides covering their own a$$e$ that none of them will tell the truth about what happened to Relisha?

If they all agree that they all participated in her leaving multiple times, for sometimes several days at a time, with KT then why won't someone own up to being the one who handed her off last?

Perhaps, because he did bring her back for the brother's/uncles party on March 7th or 8th and something happened to Relisha on one of the family member's watch. Maybe, they are all fronting for each other by blaming the other and covering their own behinds in the process.

Little Relisha is being treated like a hot potato that no one wants to admit to dropping. WTH is wrong with this whole scenario? Well, we know the WHAT (Relisha is missing, at the very least); what we don't know is the WHO, WHEN, WHERE or WHY. Too many questions to even begin to come up with only a few theories. The possibilities are endless with all these unknowns.

I am sure that Chief Lanier, the MPD, PGPD and the FBI all know much more than we do and trust that this investigation will someday be fruitful. I remain hopeful for justice for Relisha.

I thought about Relisha yesterday when my granddaughter squealed with delight over her Easter basket and her bag of new fun things. While we were searching for eggs, blowing bubbles and having our annual Egg Spoon Race, I wondered if Relisha ever experienced that kind of joy. I think I know the answer and it makes me very sad for her. At least maybe her siblings may get the chance for a good life that Relisha never had and may not, ever. Relisha has made a mark on my heart and it hurts for her right now. GAH!!!!

 

[Cinnamon]

Posting and flagging in case a no no. If I remember, 4 (or 5) people and 3 cars were at motel night AT died. KT, AT, RL and ? Trying to wrap my head around it. Was it some sort of meeting? Was AT already deceased?

Also, anyone know about how long KT was dead when he was found? Less than 24 hours, 48, 72? Has it been proven he took his own life?

I think it's very strange and scary that LE posts footage of RR entering room, but not exiting, I'd love to see that footage.

BBM. :ditto:

 

[poppyfrock]

Just wanted to share a dream I've had two nights in a row, a dream of the same residence where I had lived for a couple of yrs in the 90's. This place holds good,fond,bad,terrible and horrible memories for me. It was a 2 apt building, my husband myself and two children stayed in the first floor. The bedrooms were on the ground level as to to front curb park and walk in(which 2 bedrooms on that floor) the second floor was rented to an older gentlemen who had been there 12 yrs. This gentlemen had a lady friend, so he would spend time at her house and let one of his friends stay at the apt. (which I've never met nor seen in person) to keep place safe.

My household would spend all time in basement completely done remodeled (living room/playroom/yard/bathroom & kitchen. One day I went up the steps through the bedrooms to check for mail, I didn't check everyday most were crap advertisements and trash worthy. This day when I checked for mail I open the door to the hallway and heard very weird sounds (breathing,scratching,pressure on door) I didn't think anything of it and figured my neighbor must have gotten a dog, the sounds were familiar to me because I'm a huge dog lover. So I got mail and went back downstairs finished my day as always.

My husband worked night work woke him up at 3pm and he was off to work 7:30pm, just him leaving police cars pulled up as we could see the lights through the basement window and then a loud knock at our upstairs door, so I went upstairs opened the door and saw a body laying on the floor up bottom of steps(he had a seizure and died that morning). I started SCREAMING & CRYING......... Instantly I knew those sounds I heard earlier were not of a dog, but a man dying who couldn't speak who was scratching on the door for my Help. I never forgave myself, and blocked it out of my head/mind for yrs. If you're not familiar or notified of a possible illness of a person, you are not aware to be help or even keep an eye out for possible signs..

I say this because this may have happen to Relisha' with whoever had her, it's only a possibility. Every night I ask from her as I go to sleep thinking about her please give me a sign, as I wake up to open the laptop to read "that she has been" I find another day of heartbreak there is nothing to read. The sweet girl consumes me body & mind and everything else has taken a step back.

Thanks for letting me share, sorry for long post just needed to get that off my chest.
Private Eye' I knew in my heart (Hayes St.) was the forum of gathering, I thank you for your post and hard work on getting this info to us..

:hug:

 

[Guidedbyfaith]

I wrote this very long post about Relisha which did not post and I could not get it back. I was ranting and raving like a crazy woman. Then, I told myself that everything happens for a reason...it was not meant for me to post that at this particular time but anywho...lol.

I just wanted to share that our princess is on the cover of P.E.A.S Magazine's April edition which I found on the HFRR FB page because I did not know if any WSer's had seen it or not. Also, I wanted to say it's the very same picture that initial captured our hearts.

http://issuu.com/p.e.a.s.intheirpods/docs/april_2014_p.e.a.s_magazine

Relisha's little eyes are full of conflicted emotions yet I seem to understand them clearly. They spoke to my soul since the moment that I looked into them. And, I can not look away from them...almost when you look into your baby's eyes for the first time; if you can understand what I mean.

Now, I want to share something that I realized about this family. We want them to tell the truth about Relisha, right??? But they have already spoken their truth...in their opinion. But IMOO, we are dealing with a bunch of pathological liars that suffer from NPD(narcissistic personality disorder). Do not believe me...just read it:

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissistic personality disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Pathological lying

http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/articles/pathological-lying-symptom-or-disease

Where are you baby girl??? We're still looking!!!

 

[popsicle]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

I'm not seeing that.

 

[branwynbreeze]

I wrote this very long post about Relisha which did not post and I could not get it back. I was ranting and raving like a crazy woman. Then, I told myself that everything happens for a reason...it was meant for me to post that at this particular time but anywho...lol.

I just wanted to share that our princess is on the cover of P.E.A.S Magazine's April edition which I found on the HFRR FB page because I did not know if any WSer's had seen it or not. Also, I wanted to say it's the very same picture that initial captured our hearts.

http://issuu.com/p.e.a.s.intheirpods/docs/april_2014_p.e.a.s_magazine

Relisha's little eyes are full of conflicted emotions yet I seem to understand them clearly. They spoke to my soul since the moment that I looked into them. And, I can not look away from them...almost when you look into your baby's eyes for the first time; if you can understand what I mean.

Now, I want to share something that I realized about this family. We want them to tell the truth about Relisha, right??? But they have already spoken their truth...in their opinion. But IMOO, we are dealing with a bunch of pathological liars that suffer from NPD(narcissistic personality disorder). Do not believe me...just read it:

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissistic personality disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Pathological lying

http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/articles/pathological-lying-symptom-or-disease

Where are you baby girl??? We're still looking!!!

I was comparing some of my family members to RRs. They couldn't tell the truth if it was written down for them to read. The story changes to fit the circumstances. They try to manipulate and twist things so story can benefit them. Next step is to try to get as many in their "camp" as possible.

I hope that RR can find some middle ground and figure out this isn't about them, it's about a missing girl who has become much loved by public. Do the right thing.

 

[Guidedbyfaith]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

I'm not seeing that.

It's JMO; not fact.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissistic Personality Disorder involves arrogant behavior, a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration-all of which must be consistently evident at work and in relationships. People who are narcissistic are frequently described as cocky, self-centered, manipulative, and demanding. Narcissists may concentrate on unlikely personal outcomes (e.g., fame) and may be convinced that they deserve special treatment. Related Personality Disorders: Antisocial, Borderline, Histrionic. Narcissism is a less extreme version of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Narcissism involves cockiness, manipulativeness, selfishness, power motives, and vanity-a love of mirrors. Related personality traits include: Psychopathy, Machiavellianism.

the definition is from: http://www.psychologytoday.com/conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder

 

[kimi_SFC]

Article about Relisha's search last Saturday if interested.

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/...-rudd-we-dont-believe-in-too-little-too-late/

Another quote from linked article:

"We don't come from that perspective, we don't believe in too little, too late," said the search's organizer, T. White, who met with Relisha a few times when he served on the D. C. Board of Education.

"We are going to continue the search as if she disappeared yesterday."


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I agree, this is the approach the community at large needs to take, in order to #FindRelisha. The dedication of those who are willing to take to the streets, "boots on the ground" is crucial and critical to both spreading awareness and letting those in area know that Relisha MATTERS.

It is a cohesive effort that helps to bring answers - and the missing home. The dynamic of the home Relisha will return to will be dealt with, of that I have no doubt!

The primary issue at hand is finding her. The turnout is a positive sign, and I commend every single person who comprised the search party. Your dedication has been recognized, by the WP, and here at WS.

We know from our own WSers in attendance who waited for the Young's, that they were eventual no-show for their own flesh and blood. This non-verbal communication speaks volumes to me. :moo: One could make the argument that neither side of Relisha's family was there for her.

IMV, how can there be conflict, if there's no one to argue with? Even if both sides of the family had been represented, the fact that this blended family can not put aside their differences, regardless of the venue & for the sake of this child, breaks my heart. Even if both had shown up, it would have been amazing, they could have found a way to search separate areas - keeping their distance and minimize conflict.

There has to be a way to put Relisha FIRST. As the world finds ways to prioritize, and search as though it is Day One, I continue to pray for every single family member to find it within themselves to do the same.

The world is watching. It's never too late to put your best foot forward for Relisha! You never know what you're capable of until you try!

#FindRelisha


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[Guidedbyfaith]

Another quote from linked article:

"We don't come from that perspective, we don't believe in too little, too late," said the search's organizer, T. White, who met with Relisha a few times when he served on the D. C. Board of Education.

"We are going to continue the search as if she disappeared yesterday."


-----


I agree, this is the approach the community at large needs to take, in order to #FindRelisha. The dedication of those who are willing to take to the streets, "boots on the ground" is crucial and critical to both spreading awareness and letting those in area know that Relisha MATTERS.

It is a cohesive effort that helps to bring answers - and the missing home. The dynamic of the home Relisha will return to will be dealt with, of that I have no doubt!

The primary issue at hand is finding her. The turnout is a positive sign, and I commend every single person who comprised the search party. Your dedication has been recognized, by the WP, and here at WS.

We know from our own WSers in attendance who waited for the Young's, that they were eventual no-show for their own flesh and blood. This non-verbal communication speaks volumes to me. :moo: One could make the argument that neither side of Relisha's family was there for her.

IMV, how can there be conflict, if there's no one to argue with? Even if both sides of the family had been represented, the fact that this blended family can not put aside their differences, regardless of the venue & for the sake of this child, breaks my heart. Even if both had shown up, it would have been amazing, they could have found a way to search separate areas - keeping their distance and minimize conflict.

There has to be a way to put Relisha FIRST. As the world finds ways to prioritize, and search as though it is Day One, I continue to pray for every single family member to find it within themselves to do the same.

The world is watching. It's never too late to put your best foot forward for Relisha! You never know what you're capable of until you try!

#FindRelisha


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Exactly, in the beginning MYT was trying to protect SY...she doesn't drink or do drugs but now, it has changed. I do & don't understand it. SY said she left RR with her mother & sister from like her 2nd interview. When MYT was asked about it, on the JVM....& which a snippet was played for MYT. At that time, MYT kept saying she did not know why SY was saying that. But, during the reunion at AY's house when SY so called popped up(the reunion)...SY blamed MYT & AY right there in there face...on live TV again for being the last ones with Relisha. So, what has changed??? I understand they're cover their A$$E$ but what are we missing???

Why was AY's daughter's whereabouts brung up??? Even though, they lie a lot...there's always a little truth in it. Maybe, if we knew about this one fact, it could possibly gives a clue to finding Relisha. Why were SY & AY in foster care for so long, what did MYT do??? Where was MYT during that time??? Were MYT's parental rights legally taken away??? Whose AY & SY's father??? Could it be KT??? How did they all seem to migrate to DC because they grew up in VA??? Was MYT ever in foster care???

I have so many questions besides the ones above but one that just is just irking my nerves is...if KT & AY were married for about 24 years, how is it that there are 6 children between them (within that time period) but none of them are "their" biological kids together??? IMOO, this says a lot about them and their relationship...to me!!!

 

[SCHMAE]

Find RELISHA !!!!!!!!!!

 

[Cinnamon]

Find RELISHA !!!!!!!!!!

YES!!!

Goodnight, baby girl! Praying for you day and nigh!!! :heartbeat: :heartbeat:

 

[2Hope4]

I wish I could find this darling little girl! Sadly, I can't. I can look for clues, look for something to indicate where she might be. But I can't find her. And that hurts. Hurts deeply. :tantrum:

 

[nikki80]

Good Morning Relisha... we love you.

 

[SCHMAE]

Yes we do ! I've been a little elsewhere but I cannot stand to read what this family says instead of begging for their child back. You can only get so disgusted and yet on WS, there are new lows every day and mostly I'm so done ! ( not with ws ) I'm just sick of excuses and deflection and blame game. WHERE'S YOUR BABY ?????????????
Don't say another word to any social media or msm or talk shows or humans on earth until you've said that ^^^ ! Dang !

 

[Solitaryone]

Another day without Relisha. I wish we knew what LE was doing. Where is Relisha? What happened to her? Why don't her family tell what they know? SY, AY and MYT know what happened, but they are just waiting and hoping this "blows over". Why are SY, AY and MYT so unfazed by Relisha's disappearance and possible murder? Totally unfazed! Even with the guilty knowledge they possess, don't anyone of them have any feelings of loss, fear, anything at all for Relisha??