Hi Sparklin,
I actually respect this position very much. In fact, I feel the same way as you. That's why it does not tear me up if me sharing information from a source I cannot name is set aside due to it coming from an unnamed source. I would do the same if I were reading on a site (even mainstream media) sharing the same type information.
However, I prefer it be rejected on sound logic like that versus it being misrepresented as something it is not.
I will be very glad to quote exactly what the source shared with me (minus anything exchanged past that between us)
Here it is verbatim and take it for what you choose to value it at:
There was prefacing comments that I can't share to protect their identity then...
Then there are comments on why they chose to speak with me which don't need to be shared.
This person, to the best of my ability, was determined to be a close contact to the family.
The last of the information exchange has to do with the reported threats to searchers, which I won't be sharing.