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You talked me into it. As a parent to a child in the AAP program (elem/middle school) in this same district (F'fax County), I want to know what my child will be reading in the AP program in high school. I can handle it. And, then I'll post back.
FYI, I'm pretty conservative with my choice of reading materials, so I'm anxious to see exactly what's in this book.![]()
Well, believe it or not, I just finished it. The whole thing... Thanks for 'gently' recommending that it should be read before forming an opinion, AnaTeresa.
--- Spoiler Alert----
1) bestiality: was mentioned a few times but not described in detail at all, which was the impression that I got from the F'fax mother's objection (that it would be like some trashy romance novel, but insert the bestiality). It was really not the focus of the book in any way, shape, or form.
2) gang rape/rape: it was talked about also. But again, not described in much detail. Not the focus of the book but played a more prominent role than bestiality by far - used to describe how badly the black people of that day were treated.
3) Beloved, the child/ghost: while this is the name of the book, and the book centers a great deal around her death, her ghost that haunted the home, and then finally her 'reappearance' in the flesh as a woman, I still get the feeling that the book was not about Beloved. Beloved's haunting of the house and her appearing physically were a little freaky, but again, nothing a mature teen or adult can't handle.
4) Overall impression: the book, for me, was more about the inhumane treatment of the blacks of that day/time and the effect it had on their lives, culminating in the decision by Sethe to kill her children (she only succeeded in killing one) rather than have them be taken back to the same home/life/mistreatment that she had so desperately escaped --- to be compared to and thought of as nothing more than an animal, an asset, to be sold, abused, beaten, chained, even roasted alive/eaten.
Seriously?!? There is all of ^^this ^^ in there - all of this pain, this suffering, this crazy-making - and someone latches onto the few mentions of bestiality? It's hard to believe someone smart enough to get through law school totally missed the point of this book. Talk about not seeing the forest for the trees. The impression that I am left with now, just minutes after finishing this book, is not about the bestiality or rape or even the murder of one's own child (none of which were described in as much graphic detail as I've read in other books or in the newspaper or CNN.com). But the Bigger Picture of it all put together, the biography of Sethe and Baby Suggs and Denver and Paul D and all the others - and a deep sadness for how blacks were treated back then and what they had to do to simply survive. Those difficult situations where good/bad may not be simply black/white and where fine and good people are pushed to doing terrible things (but was it terrible...?).
Again, I am very conservative about what I read - and about what my kids read/watch. This is not anything that would bother me to have a 17/18-yr-old child read. Not at all.
(However, I didn't enjoy the book, but not because of the content. It's a style of writing that is hard for me to follow or to get into. I completed it b/c I wanted to not only get through it to form my own opinion but also to find out what happened to the characters.)