Seems less like mental illness and more like average everyday common Male Entitlement. Especially bad in positions of authority in sports related fields and academics. He wanted to live the lifestyle of a player. Didn't ever think about how it would feel if someone was doing his daughter, wife, or sister that way. SELFISH & TOXIC. "I work hard, I'm so good at my job, I DESERVE a cute assistant who I can have sex with. It's MY RIGHT AS A MAN of intelligence and worth..." Common trope in American culture. And certain politicians want to complain about women are forgoing marriage in large numbers...who wants to get married when THIS MESS can happen. His hubris screwed up his wife and daughters' futures, to put it kindly.