Found Deceased FL - Cassie Carli 37, & Saylor (safe) met Ex to exchange custody, Navarre Beach, 27 Mar 2022 *Arrest

[SteveP]

on another topic. Has anyone heard one peep from any friend or family member of MS? Either to speak well of him or otherwise? I find it odd that not a single soul, family, coworker, friend, neighbor, has had a single word to say about him.

Perhaps they were taught the same thing that many of us probably were...if you can't say something nice about someone, well... JMO

 

[iQuill]

I wonder if Cassie’s autopsy is complete and we will hear results today. MS deserves whatever is coming his way. Sometimes children are better off without a father than the one they were given. I’m impatiently waiting to learn that Cassie’s precious baby girl is safely back with her Grandpa. Moo

 

[curiouser_]

I just had the biggest eye roll reading this... if he cared so much about his daughter being taken care of, he wouldn't have killed her loving mother. MOO.

Seriously. I rolled my eyes so hard, I think I saw my brain...

 

[curiouser_]

on another topic. Has anyone heard one peep from any friend or family member of MS? Either to speak well of him or otherwise? I find it odd that not a single soul, family, coworker, friend, neighbor, has had a single word to say about him.

I have a feeling they want nothing to do with/don't want to associate themselves with him - which says a lot in and of itself. It could also be that he is somewhat of loner - not by choice. It seems like he'd be a hard guy to warm up to...before his social media was locked down there were some pretty interesting things there...

 

[pseudo_hum]

I have a feeling they want nothing to do with/don't want to associate themselves with him - which says a lot in and of itself. It could also be that he is somewhat of loner - not by choice. It seems like he'd be a hard guy to warm up to...before his social media was locked down there were some pretty interesting things there...

My guess, he'll meet that "special" someone in prison and find out what it's like to be controlled.

 

[Tealgrove]

Somebody please tell me that wherever he is tried is a death penalty state.

He’s going to learn real soon what it’s like when you have no power and no ability to control your life or environment.

He and Leticia Stauch would make a great pair.

 

[pseudo_hum]

Somebody please tell me that wherever he is tried is a death penalty state.

He’s going to learn real soon what it’s like when you have no power and no ability to control your life or environment.

He and Leticia Stauch would make a great pair.

We know Florida is a DP state. But do we know when he took CC life? It seems the kidnapping took place in Florida, and I would think that is where he took her life?

 

[Cloudydiamond]

Somebody please tell me that wherever he is tried is a death penalty state.

He’s going to learn real soon what it’s like when you have no power and no ability to control your life or environment.

He and Leticia Stauch would make a great pair.

Florida is

 

[LeBlack]

If his family are decent human beings and NOT like the Laundry family they will return Saylor quickly to her HOME, she's lost a lot in the last week.

 

[Hexe]

We know Florida is a DP state. But do we know when he took CC life? It seems the kidnapping took place in Florida, and I would think that is where he took her life?

He kidnapped Cassie in Florida, her body was found in Alabama, which also is a death penalty state.

 

[Cloudydiamond]

He kidnapped Cassie in Florida, her body was found in Alabama, which also is a death penalty state.

Proud to live in a southern state

 

[Warwick7]

"The only fact in why he could have been in Tennessee is he was actively fleeing because he knows he is guilty,” said Carli’s friend Sam Graves."

Suspect in Cassie Carli’s death refuses extradition to Florida, points to daughter

 

[Kecharaeq2]

I have a feeling they want nothing to do with/don't want to associate themselves with him - which says a lot in and of itself. It could also be that he is somewhat of loner - not by choice. It seems like he'd be a hard guy to warm up to...before his social media was locked down there were some pretty interesting things there...

If I were them, I’d just be grateful that I didn’t have to put up with the BS anymore. Eventually, he’ll figure out that the law moves at it’s own pace and correctional officers can’t be bullied. I think he’s in for some rude awakenings.
JMHO

 

[Warwick7]

"Carli's father, Andrew Carli, last week filed a petition in Florida court to get emergency custody of his granddaughter."

Murdered Florida mom's ex-boyfriend is fighting extradition from Tennessee | Daily Mail Online

 

[Warwick7]

Why on earth would he file dozens of (false) police reports on Cassie?? What a mean spirited man.

And then call child protective services over and over again on Cassie...
Ugh!

 

[Kecharaeq2]

I wonder if Cassie’s autopsy is complete and we will hear results today. MS deserves whatever is coming his way. Sometimes children are better off without a father than the one they were given. I’m impatiently waiting to learn that Cassie’s precious baby girl is safely back with her Grandpa. Moo

If you scroll down to the end of the article, there’s a small segment about the autopsy. Apparently they don’t want to release it until tox and the other labs are done, which could take a few weeks, per the ME.

'It's unreal': Neighbors disturbed to hear Cassie Carli's body found in Alabama barn

 

[tlcya]

It was previously revealed that Spanevelo was ordered to pay nearly $6,000 in attorney fees as part of his and Cassie Carli's custody battle for their daughter nine days before the mom-of-one vanished after going to pick up Saylor from her ex-boyfriend.
[snip]
t has since emerged that a judge had ordered Spanevelo to pay Carli $5,920 in attorney fees related to a years-long custody battle over Saylor nine days before the mother disappeared on March 27, according to court documents seen by Fox News.
Murdered Florida mom's ex-boyfriend is fighting extradition from Tennessee | Daily Mail Online
poor Saylor. She is a thing to him MOO. a thing to be used to control her mom, A thing to be owned, A thing to have to pay money to "ms. naggalot" for. and now this beautiful little girl will grow up without either of them. All because MS couldn't handle not having his way. flipping narcissist. MOO

 

[Warwick7]

Wow. I can't believe he said he didn't want the updates. What's his deal with Cassie's mother?

Maybe she didn't put up with his crap. Narcisist detest people like that...

 

[LeBlack]

Why on earth would he file dozens of (false) police reports on Cassie?? What a mean spirited man.

And then call child protective services over and over again on Cassie...
Ugh!

Narcissism - Carli and Saylor were his property. JMO

 

[Seattle1]

Murdered Florida mom's ex-boyfriend is fighting extradition from Tennessee | Daily Mail Online

4/5/22

As Carli's attorney fees increased, her younger sister Raeann started a GoFundMe page in August last year to help with the mounting legal costs.

Carli wrote on the GoFundMe page: 'This man was a master at the game of manipulation and though I could see all the warning signs of an abuser, I believed his excuses and became stuck in his web of narcissistic lies.

'During my pregnancy, this man’s abusive control and manipulation escalated. But having battled infertility in my first marriage, I desperately wanted a family. So, I justified his erratic behavior as long as I could.'

Carli also said Spanevelo 'filed dozens of false police reports' and called child protective services 'so many times, I nearly came to know most of the staff by name' after the couple broke up.

A judge on March 18 ordered Spanevelo to pay Carli $5,920 in attorney fees within 30 days.

Carli's attorney, Aaron Wentz, who said the mother attended the court hearing over zoom in his office, described her as a 'wonderful young lady'.

'Everybody in the office is pretty upset about it. We've been dealing with Cassie for quite some time. Very, very wonderful young lady,' Wentz told Fox News. 'As far as the lengthy court battle that's been going on, it never got to the point where I felt like something like this would happen, honestly. This was a shock.'

Wentz added he has no record showing Spanevelo paid Carli the legal fees owed to her.
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See Cassie's entire letter in the quoted post below:

**** MODERATOR APPROVED -- ONE TIME ONLY EXCEPTION TO LINK BELOW***

Last August, Cassie's sister (Raeann Carli) was the organizer of a crowdfund seeking donations for legal fees for Cassie's efforts to obtain full custody of her child. The letter below-- in Cassie's own words, was also posted on the funding site.

Although crowdfunding sites are not approved to link on Websleuths, this was Moderator approved for a one-time-only exception specifically to share the victim's letter that provides a window to the history of her relationship with MS, the father of her child, and her alleged killer.
https://www..com/f/g9uz3a-help-cassie-with-legal-fees
______________________

Hello Dear Family and Friends,

I am writing to you today with a heavy heart. I never imagined that I would be in a position in my life

where it would be necessary to write this letter to you. Nonetheless, here I am.

So where do I begin? Let me begin at the beginning. In July of 2017, on the heals of one of the most

traumatic events in my life, I met the man who became the father of my precious daughter. Like so

many relationships I know, I was swept up in hidden deceit known as charm. This man was a master at

the game of manipulation and though I could see all the warning signs of an abuser, I believed his

excuses and became stuck in his web of narcissistic lies. Just months into the relationship, I discovered

that I was pregnant. Let me be clear, I have never regretted my decision to become a mother. Saylor is

truly the light and love of my life.

During my pregnancy, this man’s abusive control and manipulation escalated. But having battled

infertility in my first marriage, I desperately wanted a family. So, I justified his erratic behavior as long as

I could. By the grace of God and great friends, I chose to end the relationship with him. I knew that

raising my daughter alone would be better than exposing her to a toxic homelife relationship.

When I ended the relationship with him, and he no longer had control of my mind, his web of lies and

deceit spread like a wildfire. He filed dozens of false police reports. He call CPS so many times, I nearly

came to know most of the staff by name. The passive aggressive abuse was so bad, I had to trespass him

from my apartment on more than one occasion.

In 2019 I filed for sole custody of my daughter. The court allowed him to have bi-monthly visitation and

ordered him to pay child support. To date, he owes me over 10K in support. A few weeks ago, due to

child support delinquency, the state was set to suspend his driver’s license. Just days after that notice,

he called CPS to report yet another false claim. He was allowed to pick up my daughter that day for his

regularly scheduled weekend visit.

For over two weeks, I had no contact with my daughter or knowledge of her whereabouts. I called

everyone I knew. I sought help from local police and every government agency I knew. No one could or

would help me. My only hope was a powerful attorney who would not fall for his manipulation or

believe his lies.

But great attorneys are expensive. My family has levered everything we have to try to raise the 10K

needed to fight this man in court. Currently, I am over 5K short. I need your help. My daughter needs

your help.

Foremost, please pray. Please pray and consider donating to this Go Fund Me. Every single dollar raised

will be used to protect my daughter.

Thank you for your prayers and support. I love and value each of you.

-Cassie

https://www..com/f/g9uz3a-help-cassie-with-legal-fees