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Yes you bring up a good point.He seems to me to like this narrative that Wendi is dumb and he needs to help her, it shows up in the bump calls about Dave, and in the texts with Donna about how she was buying a house and he talked her out of it. And to me, it seems like Donna feeds into this, telling him how great he is at getting her to do what they want. Whether Donna actually believes this or is manipulating him into doing her bidding by making it seem like it’s for his sister, is anyone’s guess. I believe Donna played them against each other a lot.
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In my opinion, Donna wanted this murder done, and she got Charlie to arrange it, maybe by making him think it was for Wendi’s own good, because Dan was causing Wendi so much grief. Not that he wasn’t causing her grief, of course. But in my opinion, Charlie may have been getting a very distorted picture from Donna about just how upset Wendi was. Also, it seems to me that Donna may have a hard time separating her own feelings from Wendi’s, just going by her emails in which she seems to be speaking as though she were Wendi at certain points when discussing arguments to be made in favor of relocation; (many of these arguments apply to Donna, such as the argument that the business is losing money.). So when she is talking about how upset Wendi is, she may be doing a fair amount of projecting her own feelings on to her. This does not mean I don’t think Wendi was upset with Dan, or involved or knew about the murder. I just think that when Donna is talking about Wendi, she may be talking about herself. But Charlie may not be aware of all this.
Donnas “motherly, nurturing” way of talking to Charlie is very hard to hear, because she sounds like the consummate, loving motherly type. Such a contrast to what she truly is, displayed on her emails, and at the hearing, which revealed her true nature.
Did she use her son to off her “problem“?
Did she know what he was ((allegedly)) doing in the Phillipines and elseehere, taking advantage of underaged girls?
Did Wendi really despise her brother for the same?
Was this a truly disjointed family, pretending to be so intricately involved in every detail of one another’s lives, just for their own selfish purposes ?
There are so many dynamics going on here which is why I think so many are obsessed with this case!
The “good Jewish family” with all the kids professionals….smart,money, yet such evil.
A true contrast. How can you ever trust anyone?