As a Foster parent I can tell you WE DO sign papers saying we will not leave our foster children with someone not approved. It sounds like this child was most likely in a theraputic foster home and should of never been left alone with someone not trained and or approved by the state. This child took special care and that care was not given PERIOD.
We foster parent are held above others and if they can not or don't want to accept that then they should not be a foster parent. We get children that have already been harmed (abuse neglicted ect) and that is NOT like raising a child that has not been abused.
IMO this child should of been in RTC and not a foster home. He sounds like he needed a lot of help

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THIS IS why he was moved from home to home. He would get to be to much for a foster parent and they would have to find a new home instead he should of been inpatient in RTC getting the help he needed around the clock until he got better. It is time for the state to stop being CHEAP and get our children the help they NEED.
and BTW that babysitter seems CREAPY to me.
BTW.. I want to add. I can not and will not fault any of the foster homes that could not care for them as his needs was more then they could handle. They tried to get him into a home that could which is a lot better then keeping a child you can not handle and yes a 7 year old CAN be a lot to handle with all of his issues. Some can control the whole home with their fits ect. THIS IS NOT HIS FAULT. The state should of had gotten this child FULL TIME 24/7 HELP.