I wanna throw in my 2 cents on the bumper stickers, etc,. that says money will go to the family. Rumor, but reliable... all the money has been attached to the kids, all the kids. DT is not able to spend it as she wishes. I dont have so much problem with it now, as I really believe these people gave willingly and wanted to, and anything that will benefit the kids IMO.... GO for it!
FL - Somer Thompson, 7, Orange Park, 19 Oct 2009 #31
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gonna scoot now all....have a good night....Sad, thanks for commitment to Somer!...blessings
O/T
Hounds, I see your on and would like to clarify something on my comment about sp and a white lie about him babysitting.
I DO NOT believe that SP was there as a babysitter. That is all I was saying. I believe DT needed someone to tell LE was there in a babysitting capacity and that she "little" white lied about it. Not because it was against the law, but that she had been instructed to provide (and offered free after school care at the school as well as adequate after school care) for her kids in the past and declined it saying neighbors and friends would do this for her. So ON this day she did, with a friend who had NEVER done it before. Does this help you know what I meant? Hope you accept my previous post apology.
Hounds, I see your on and would like to clarify something on my comment about sp and a white lie about him babysitting.
I DO NOT believe that SP was there as a babysitter. That is all I was saying. I believe DT needed someone to tell LE was there in a babysitting capacity and that she "little" white lied about it. Not because it was against the law, but that she had been instructed to provide (and offered free after school care at the school as well as adequate after school care) for her kids in the past and declined it saying neighbors and friends would do this for her. So ON this day she did, with a friend who had NEVER done it before. Does this help you know what I meant? Hope you accept my previous post apology.
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OK. Did you by chance get pics or videos of DT's house and neighborhood TIA?
I did for sam, but I cant share them. The kids were outside playing from AB's house to theirs. I didnt want to scare them, so I didnt hang around that area long. It appeared PC is still there as his bike was in garage. MOst neighborhood stuff I took is in videos.. and I havent had time to get them on.. later tonite... these children wont go to bed when there mimi is around!!!! tomorrow if not tonight.
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How do you know it is his bike? Is that his only mode of transport? I read on a comment page that DT bought a new Harley. I was curious about the vehicles, tags, house decorations for Christmas, and any changes to the surroundings in the last two months. That kind of thing. What time of day did you go by there?
I was not wanting to have pics of the kids posted on the board. They deserve privacy. But I would like to know which kids were outside and what sort of games it seemed like they were playing. TIA
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I am so glad to hear this. So glad. Because I am worried that I am being unfair and even inappropriate with my suspicions. I am torn to pieces about it. I am thinking if I had lost either of my sons I don't know how I could live, let alone losing them to a violent crime with no closure. What if everybody was talking about me and inferring my guilt, either directly or indirectly? I think I would go crazy or just hopefully die. I have to believe that EVERYONE who is involved in a crime is insane in one way or another, that they have a deviant moment, or moments, that become routine, I DO NOT KNOW. We are all deviant in places if we really go in there. Only God knows.
Thank you for sharing this information. It makes me so happy in what is such a terribly depressing situation.
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According to the friend who messaged me, some of the items that were at the cemetery have now been taken from there and placed at the home in a smaller memorial. Re: changes in surroundings. I feel like a total loser right now "spying" on this woman's home. I am going to say a prayer and ask God to guide me as to whether I should be even using my time thinking about who comitted this crime when it leads me into a place of comfort, thinking that I am better than another mother. I have a special place in my heart for all mothers. I'm no better, I am blessed and I have tried, and keep trying.
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Just to tell everyone that as of last night and this morning I had not heard back from my friend. She may just not want to go into any information, may be busy, etc. If I hear something you would find helpful and appropriate, I will let you know. I agree that if only LE would put out ANY information, if ANY news source would update, we would all feel better ... because I think we just want something to move forward. Sorry if I sound cliche-ish but when one thinks about all of the little boys and girls reported on WS, let alone those that have never been reported, how things just seem to get worse, oh God, it is so sad. SOmetimes it seems so pointless to go on searching and digging when the bodies just keep piling up at a faster rate, and society does not change. How can we make that happen?
People will do what they will do because they can.
People will do what they will do because they can.
I dont know it was his bike, and as far as I know, he hasnt been around any of the fund raisers, including bike rallys. DT's car was there, and it still has the Justice for somer on it in like purple shot polish, not permanent. I didnt see any christmas decorations. Of course I would not post pics of the kids, I just zoomed from far away hoping I could get some for sam. I just drove past yesterday, but I took the pics on sunday. It was the first pretty day we had in a while and I was surprised to see the kids out. They were playing with wheelchairs of all things, two of them. I didnt know the other kids, but one took off by himself on the wheelchair far down the street. I passed him as I went by, I dont know if he really needed it or not. Lil st was not really "playing" he was just kinda of sitting on the sidewalk. The others were running back and forth from AB's to DT's. Some were at the memorial which has scaled way down, but ws still there.. There was a Yellow truck in drive, but nothing about somer on it. There was a dk gray suv in the yard, again nothing about somer on it. Those were only vehicles I saw. It was sunday so it could have been family. Its the only time I have seen any trace of kids being there, so her parents could have been there too. My heart almost exploded when I saw lil st.. its like goin back in time for me.. he looks just like his dad and he looks so sad.
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My friend responded that she went for coffee at 4 or 5 a.m, route takes her past the house, everything quiet there, no police there.
I sent her the list of questions you all asked, including the Harley, if the community is any more relaxed, and etc. She seems o-k with it, and I hope you don't mind that I sent her info about this great site and she wants to check it out. Perhaps she will join? She has not forgotten Somer. I guess that is what keeps us all going...
I sent her the list of questions you all asked, including the Harley, if the community is any more relaxed, and etc. She seems o-k with it, and I hope you don't mind that I sent her info about this great site and she wants to check it out. Perhaps she will join? She has not forgotten Somer. I guess that is what keeps us all going...
It was me human, and YES it is a HUGE discrepancy. I didnt drive as fast as I would have if it was my kid missing, but I did go 5-8 over and aggressively. I missed almost all the lights and I really dont see how anyone could have gotten there faster. I dont know if we know for sure she was working at that office that day. Maybe she was at the op office. That is only way feasible for her to have gotten there in 15-20 minutes. Unless she was not at work at all.
Just a thought... I wonder if she "quit" her job at all? The early comments about not knowing when she left, that she didnt tell anyone.. heck, we dont even know if she went back after lunch... which she must have a two hour lunch if she did. Maybe she was asked to resign?
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As i watch the loves of my life all snug in their beds, getting excited about santa, and looking forward to all being together, I cannot imagine the pain everyone who loved somer is feeling. My life has changed, I do not look at strangers the same and heaven forbid if you are bald or named chris, or drive anything yellow. My grandaughters are already stunning in their beauty (and no its not just me). People comment on their looks alot. I almost wish they were not so blessed in that department. I cant take a compliment about it from strangers without pulling them closer. It terrifys me. I get panic attacks if they are playing in a crowd, at places we use to go adn I didnt worry.. like chucky cheese or the like.. I wont let them go out front to play anymore because I am scared of who will see them. I dont know how their neighborhood has changed, but I know my world has. I cant imagine if I were DT ever letting them leave my sight again. I dont understand her, but I cannot judge her anymore either. People are just different. We love, we laugh, we mother, we grandmother, we grieve differently. Pray God, I will never walk in her shoes.. stilettos or tennis... LOL
As i watch the loves of my life all snug in their beds, getting excited about santa, and looking forward to all being together, I cannot imagine the pain everyone who loved somer is feeling. My life has changed, I do not look at strangers the same and heaven forbid if you are bald or named chris, or drive anything yellow. My grandaughters are already stunning in their beauty (and no its not just me). People comment on their looks alot. I almost wish they were not so blessed in that department. I cant take a compliment about it from strangers without pulling them closer. It terrifys me. I get panic attacks if they are playing in a crowd, at places we use to go adn I didnt worry.. like chucky cheese or the like.. I wont let them go out front to play anymore because I am scared of who will see them. I dont know how their neighborhood has changed, but I know my world has. I cant imagine if I were DT ever letting them leave my sight again. I dont understand her, but I cannot judge her anymore either. People are just different. We love, we laugh, we mother, we grandmother, we grieve differently. Pray God, I will never walk in her shoes.. stilettos or tennis... LOL
I know no one is here to answer me.. so when you all return.. I look to see who is on. Right now it is me and four guests. Do you all wonder each time you see this list, if one of those is "IT", like I do? The perp, the monster, the RSO, USO, the predator, the scum, the pure evil, or the person who snapped, the person who lives in guilt and remorse. Are you there? Turn yourself in... as DT says they are coming to get you..if not today.. one day soon...
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