southcitymom
Well-Known Member
Problem is more kids means more welfare checks for only 5 years. Then they are forced off of welfare.
The other two???? Maybe.
I hope the media attention will at the very least help this mother and her son get the much needed therapy. Maybe they will raise enough money to get a new place to live. Can't imagine going back to that spot in Hell.
It's a socio-economic issue, not a racial issue - escept to the extent that there are racial factors at play ion our socio-economic problems.
I read an in-depth newspaper series talking about this - can't remember where but it was within the past year. They interviewed a number of mothers who were wholly uncapable of taking care of life (their own or another's), but kept having kid after kid after kid.
Welfare money was often a factor, but the other thing that each woman said in some form or fashion was (I'm paraphrasing here, but this is the gist): "The only time in my life that I feel special or worthwhile or needed or important is when I am pregnant/taking care of a young child."
Literally, these women only touch a sense of what they consider to be self-esteem when they are pregnant.
They don't feel like they have any talents or abilities or good stuff to offer the world; they feel like they are worthless people and probably have felt that way most of their lives; they feel like there is nothing worthwhile about them and the world treats them like hell or ignores them, except when they are pregnant. Several woman actually said something like "People treat you special when you are pregnant and I love that feeling. When I am pregnant, I am somebody." So I think that contributes to the cycle. It's very very sad.