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It’s interesting that for an engaged couple, they don’t feature at all on each other’s social media. I just think that certainly when my husband and I were dating and newly engaged, we had lots of photos of us (not so much anymore, nearly 2 decades later, now that we’re just used to always being stuck with each other, novelty has worn off
I wondered about that also, but neither were prolific posters. Most of what you see on both pages relate to their careers, so maybe they kept private things private. That makes sense to me given thier occupations.It’s interesting that for an engaged couple, they don’t feature at all on each other’s social media. I just think that certainly when my husband and I were dating and newly engaged, we had lots of photos of us (not so much anymore, nearly 2 decades later, now that we’re just used to always being stuck with each other, novelty has worn off).
I would think he went in the same spot of course as his fiance. Something occurred that boosted them both over, a trip perhaps, or he went in after her or vice versa to attempt to save.“This may be an unfortunate situation where nature will have to take its course,” Sills said, adding that based on all circumstances, he still believes Jones is in the lake and will surface in time, as is common in most drowning cases.
“The biggest problem, okay, is we don’t know where he went in,” Sills explained.
Phone records obtained through search warrants indicate that the couple’s devices stopped transmitting signals in the same general area where their boat was first spotted empty and idling in circles on Feb. 8.
“Where the boat was initially reported seen corresponds in the general area where phone records were showing us where the phones quit working,” Sills said.
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DNR details extensive resources used in 22-day search for Gary Jones before suspension
After 22 days, Putnam County Sheriff Howard Sills made the difficult decision to suspend daily search operations for Jones.www.11alive.com
Yes that's a good point. Both of them were apparently thrown out by some major violent force of the boat moving around, but their cake and their wallet etc was sitting there just fine, neatly in a row. That doesn't add up.It is all so odd, I think it was said that it was NOT that warm, going out a ways in such a small kind of boat, no life vest on and soon to be dusk. His wallet sitting on the boat seat. It seems that the boat did not really tip enough to toss the wallet about and I read the cake was also just fine. Just going by what I read here from wherever the sources are, news. Understand that they purposely went there with the boat for the water, the place they were staying, a getaway it was to be. Hard to figure how it happened to me, with the intact things inside the boat, unless she stood up and over she went quickly without disturbance. So far both of them. I read that the police noted that his shoelaces were not tied to begin with, maybe to hold them in his hands while he pushed the boat out, so did not tie them. Had them also sitting inside the boat and THEY managed to fly out but not the wallet and other things. Just a haste to get into the boat, the water once they got there before dark started. A terrible thing.
It's said that it looked like the boat owner was working on something of the engine or motor, as something was undone. To me, whatever happened, happened after that, like maybe the boat DID start up again (if it had stalled) and that is when they were thrown over. Same time, or he may of been thrown over if standing at that time and she went in after him, tried to, but the boat was out of control by then and she couldn't get to it to hold on at the very least. Not necessarily out of control, but moving. His shoes though...not the other items. I wonder if the cake and wallet WERE really neatly placed. Sometimes info gets confused between people who then report on it. I would want to hear from the person that actually saw the boat and how it looked inside when found. I don't think that kind of boat uses an anchor, you just turn on the motor or off. She may of helped push it out into the water or gotten her feet in the water before getting inside it to sit down. Don't know about her shoes or sandals, on or off at the time. She may of gotten in and sat down while he finished getting it unhooked and into the water to get going out, while on dry land. He would of taken off his shoes to not get them wet of course. The thing is, his shoes floated to shore, but the rest stayed intact, that we are told. He may of put them back on once in the boat and if still untied, would of perhaps come off in the water.Yes that's a good point. Both of them were apparently thrown out by some major violent force of the boat moving around, but their cake and their wallet etc was sitting there just fine, neatly in a row. That doesn't add up.
And second of all, if they were both not thrown out, then one of them fell out. And then the other one fell in too, when they tried to get the first person out of the water. But if one of them fell out, then the first thing the other person would do, would be to stop the boat. Because you can't pull the other person out of the water, when your boat is still moving. So I don't know how you specifically stop a boat, I guess turn off the engine, and I don't know if you use an anchor. But apparently the boat's engine was still on. So that also does not add up.
So either way, it doesn't really make sense.
I forgot she had her phone in her hand, so she would not of gone in after him holding that. It makes it seem extremely sudden that she was thrown overboard once the boat started up again, IF it was stalled then fixed and started on it's own. More investigation into that motor might explain that situation if stalled, then restarted, but.It's said that it looked like the boat owner was working on something of the engine or motor, as something was undone. To me, whatever happened, happened after that, like maybe the boat DID start up again (if it had stalled) and that is when they were thrown over. Same time, or he may of been thrown over if standing at that time and she went in after him, tried to, but the boat was out of control by then and she couldn't get to it to hold on at the very least. Not necessarily out of control, but moving. His shoes though...not the other items. I wonder if the cake and wallet WERE really neatly placed. Sometimes info gets confused between people who then report on it. I would want to hear from the person that actually saw the boat and how it looked inside when found. I don't think that kind of boat uses an anchor, you just turn on the motor or off. She may of helped push it out into the water or gotten her feet in the water before getting inside it to sit down. Don't know about her shoes or sandals, on or off at the time. She may of gotten in and sat down while he finished getting it unhooked and into the water to get going out, while on dry land. He would of taken off his shoes to not get them wet of course. The thing is, his shoes floated to shore, but the rest stayed intact, that we are told. He may of put them back on once in the boat and if still untied, would of perhaps come off in the water.
The WORST is that no lifesaver vests on out in that water. IT was cold water so still may not of survived, but might of given them a chance to reach that boat if it was stationary after he got it started up again, which was then going to be taking off though, and appears, without them in it.
That's a good question about letting go of the phone.Jocelyn’s phone being found in her hand has been discussed but I want to add that if I were falling from a boat i would drop my phone. I think it would be a reflex, i would be trying to stop my fall and then trying to swim. If she was knocked out before falling I wonder if she would naturally let go of her phone.
Okay thanks on the info for stopping a boat. Do you need to take that engine covering off to do some fast stopping of the boat?The reports linked upthread said the motor cowling had been removed. The only reason to do this while out on the water would be because you were having motor trouble. So, the thought that the motor suddenly went into gear and they were thrown out is a definite possibility.
@concernedcitizen706 When in open water stopping a boat could be done a couple of ways without deploying an anchor. The first, if there is no immediate need to stop, is to simply put the motor in neutral. The boat will slow down and eventually stop. If there is an immediate need to stop, you shift the motor out of forward and into reverse. By accelerating the motor in reverse will stop the boat pretty darn quickly.
ETA, the motor cowling is the cover over the top of the motor.
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maybe taking pictures of the engine?Also if you have engine trouble and you're working on the engine, why would you be taking pictures right at that time. It seems like you would be more worried about the engine.
You're welcome. No, you do not need to remove the cowling to stop a boat at any time, for any reason.Okay thanks on the info for stopping a boat. Do you need to take that engine covering off to do some fast stopping of the boat?
This is also perplexing. As stated above, IME/IMO the only reason for them to have removed the cowling is if they were having problems with the motor. The only explanation I can thing of is *maybe* JW was taking pictures of GJ working on the motor for social media or something like that.Also if you have engine trouble and you're working on the engine, why would you be taking pictures right at that time. It seems like you would be more worried about the engine.
This is also perplexing. As stated above, IME/IMO the only reason for them to have removed the cowling is if they were having problems with the motor. The only explanation I can thing of is *maybe* JW was taking pictures of GJ working on the motor for social media or something like that.