We have tried gay advocacy groups but they say there is nothing they can do. We have tried to organize rallies and motivate involvement but the fact of the matter is is that people care about as little when it's an older white male as they do if he were a minority.
Advocacy groups aside, I don't know if Jeff and Brian were into the Atlanta bar scene at all but did they at least plaster the bars with flyers? If so, did they get any feedback at all?
I don't know what to make of the silence or indifference. The media is easy to figure out - if you are young, white, female and attractive it is news. Anyone else is lucky to get any mention at all. The only time I saw people posting comments in a public forum (other than these missing persons sites and FB) was one article. There someone suggested that his departure was "one of 50 ways to leave your lover" and that prompted friends of Brian or the family to post comments on his behalf. It makes me wonder why the lack of commentary other than these few missing persons sites.
I'd like to think if something happened to someone I knew that there would be more out there. I hope never to have to find out for real.
I am curious about the reference to the minorities and why they think an older white male would get less coverage than a black person. The fact of the matter is missing minorities get tragically little press.