So I have really bad insomnia and have to get this off my chest as I’ve been pretty spooked by this whole thing. I hope it’s ok if I share a weird encounter my wife and I had in Atlanta the other month.
So about 6 weeks or so ago, my wife and I were eating on the patio of a restaurant in our neighborhood (we live 4.5 miles from Piedmont Park so it’s not in our backyard, but not too far either). We’re eating away and all the sudden this guy from the kitchen pops out wearing an apron and one of those hats line cooks wear. He asks for my water. I thought it was strange but figured he might be socially awkward so I let him take it. He then sits on a chair nearby our table and starts chatting with us. He talked about normal stuff, like the weather. At one point he was wiping sweat off his brow (it was really hot) and looking up at the kitchen and telling stories about how unbearable it is cooking in the summer heat.
Totally normal stuff, right? At this point he’s waving to customers and they’re waving back and so on. Our waiter came up to check on us eventually, and the guy points to him and is like “This guy is the best waiter we have!” to which our waiter laughs and says “Thanks man”. Again, nothing unusual here.
All the sudden, a little after the waiter left, the guy pulls out a ring and tries selling it to us. “Ok this is really WEIRD.” I text my wife. She texts back that we should get the check. Our waiter is nowhere to be seen so we have to endure his increasingly erratic behavior as we wait. We rebuff his offer and tell him “no thanks”. He then apologizes and starts talking about the weather again...
At one point (we had been talking for over 15 minutes by now) he’s mid sentence and then all the sudden starts SPEAKING IN TONGUES. I’m not one to judge the mentally ill,but this was SO. JARRING because it came out of nowhere. And he honestly was otherwise articulate. He then grew more agitated and told this young man walking with his girlfriend across the street that she will leave him because she’s a “




”.
My wife and I continue to stay calm and anxiously await the check. Sensing that we are leaving, the guy says “Can I have this?!” and points to my chicken wings. I oblige but maybe caution that he shouldn’t because of Covid-19. He then takes some hand sanitizer and sprays it all over the chicken wings and begins to scarf them down. We sign the check when it comes and pretty much run after our waiter apologizes. Out of the corner of our eye as we are leaving, we can see the man darting full speed across the street in his white hat and white apron.We sprint back to our place fearing that he’ll cut back and follow us.
My wife later ran into our waiter when on a walk and he pulled her aside to apologize and said “He definitely DOES NOT work here, and we were spooked that he dressed up in that apron to fool you guys. We are so so sorry. I hope your dinner wasn’t ruined.” My wife tells the waiter we know it’s not their fault etc.
We continued to see that guy behind our building about 3 days a week. Sometimes out of nowhere my wife would look up while walking one of our dogs and he would be sitting on a nearby bench, asking her to sit with him (she of course always goes back in when this happens). Other times he’d be staring at a passing train and saying cryptic things like “It’s our time to board!”. The most recent time she saw him, he barked at our dog (This was like Monday July 26thish).I caution my wife to not walk our dogs past dark but sometimes we have to walk them late. She always keeps an eye out for him though.
I guess the point to this story is, I’ve seen (and have empathy for) my fair share of mentally unstable people agitated on the streets. But I’ve never seen anything like this. What struck me most about this guy was his dedication to and execution of an elaborate plan (i.e. buying the apron and hat so he could pose as a cook) all while reaching a “speaking in tongues” level detached from reality.
I 100% don’t think this guy has anything to do with recent events but thought I’d share because this interaction made me realize that even people experiencing a mental break can have moments of lucidity and stick to a plan to achieve a goal (I know a lot of you talked about this a lot with respect to whether a person in the throes of psychosis could execute something so heinous and get away with it).