Inga's mother gave a 1H interview. Unfortunately it's in German and no subtitles.
Looks like she talks about their visit one year before and someone suspect or that made her fearful. I'll try to follow that with a German native member and through AM.
https://odmdr-a.akamaihd.net/mp4dyn2/7/FCMS-7b8bdaaa-b0e6-40f0-b1a2-b9865347ce3c-1af20647950e_7b.mp4
Okay,
Will try to translate bits by bits..
The reporter asked VG if she can tell something,about the settings of the relationships and the WH visits.
The mother of Inga tells a little bit history :
she has a very good friend for many,many years and as the years passed,they both started their own family but her friend -through her marriage- moved further away.
So,once a year,they tried to see /meet eachother,personally to stay in touch and spend time together.
they talked about it and VG friend had a friend,living at WH.
they were invited by this third family(also with children)in WH,”meet in the middle” ,so not both families had to travel so far away to see eachother.
A joint meeting,to speak off, a day at Wilhelmshof,they done it before and it worked out fine.The children felt very comfortable,played a lot with eachother and it was a pleasant,beautiful atmosphere.
The host family was very hospitable to and all felt good.
So at May 2nd 2015,they planned again a day to spend time with eachother at WH,Stendal.Every family brought something with them,cake,food,etc and they drove early afternoon,to meet up.
The children played,football ,we woman talked and we liked to spend time together.(02.28)
Reporter:
Can you tell about the last time point that you can remember,when you saw Inga for the last time?
VG:
I saw her the last time when I went into the kitchen,we decided to stay for supper and we,woman should prepare it in the kitchen.while others prepare the bbq with a few more additional things,the men wanted to have chair cushions at the bbq place,drinks there and everything else that was needed..
Inga went into the kitchen and that was the last time I had personal contact with her,I saw her again ,when I looked behind of the kitchen window.(03.25)
It could be that I talked later with her,at a later point — but what I always remember is that she said, “Mom, I am already grown”
It because I said and showed her the limits,where she is allowed to move around at WH,and that Inga might have said that,because the other children were older and Inga the youngest,trying to test her limits a bit and the older children had more space to move around and could go further away.So I told Inga ”stay close by,that I can see you and you can see me“ and in that context we talked about it.Inga also said “Mama,I am big too.”
Yes,but at the same time ,ofcourse,she also understood the limit that was set and I was used that Inga stick to it.(04.46)
Reporter:
Can you describe Inga,her karakter?
VG:
A normal girl,normal 5 year old girl.
Happy,playfull
Also smart,she was used to live with her older siblings,was able to communicate well with children, older then her,and maybe it was influenced a bit because of that because she already had older siblings.
She was the youngest and that is why she was more treated with protection and closer attention.She was no different then other children at that age,just things that every parents say,about your children, a normal girl. (06.04)
