They will have to file a civil lawsuit in order to receive assets that will rightly belong to Asa and her two children. None of us know what Asa needs in order to protect her financial well-being now and well into the futrue. Her cancer care alone will be very costly and none of us know what debts she will have to pay as well. I don't begrudge any of the assets going to Asa that are rightfully hers as the assets are divided up in the divorce settlement so that she can have adequate financial security for herself and her two children.
Lucky for AE, she lives in NY. She can get health insurance.
Lucky for AE, she, unlike children whose mothers were allegedly murdered by her husband, has been the benefactor of numerous financial donations for other expenses.
Lucky for AE, her neighbors overwhelmingly supported and did did not blame her for the behavior of her husband, offering much support and physical labor which woukd not have been forthcoming before her husbands incarceration for his horrific alleged crimes.
Lucky for AE, she has a spunk we all saw as she dealt with unwanted attention from tabloid photographers. She is no pushover.
I have the utmost respect for AE. I feel that it is possible that she was or was not a victim of domestic violence. If she was, I don't think Rex realized what he was up against! She is not to be trifled with.
I understand that AE has had a lot thrown at her. But she is strong and recently empowered with resources she did not have before we knew her name. IMO, if she did not have complete control of her life before I knew her name, she does now. If she did not have a bank account before I knew her name, she does now. If she did not have the support of her neighbors before I knew her name, she does now.
She lives in a state where medical insurance is very accessible. There is no reason she would have crazy out of pocket expenses for her care.
I get that she very well might have a lot on her plate. But she has not been mistreated by anyone except her husband possibly, who is now tucked away. And the community has given her tremendous support.
I hope the support continues.
In addition, I'd like to see that support extended to the children and other relatives and friends of the women Rex allegedly murdered.
MOO