• #4,901
I often consider the devastation for both sides of a crime, the victims family and the perps family. Both are unfathomable. Initially the victims family is destroyed and eventually, in many cases, the perps is. I hope that his family has a network that will support them, they have some very dark days ahead.
Yes agreed!
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  • #4,902
Do you all think he just stopped or moved to other areas? I am wondering if he didn't venture away from LI because of his comfort level. He may be one that doesn't do well with change, hence buying his family home, keeping the car for decades, same job for decades, etc...
I never thought he stopped and that was frustrating to the local area. I agree he doesn't like change, he liked his routine. I wonder if he went back to that same spot after the discovery, possibly waiting a couple of years. I don't know how or if Ocean Parkway has stepped up kind of security systems or regular patrols to that site with K-9 police. I'd like to think he stopped but isn't there a saying about serial killers never stop unless they are arrested or dead? JMO
 
  • #4,903
This video is very upsetting and I don’t understand why the press is there. The wife yells at them (and rightly so). They need to leave her alone.
I was almost in tears. Why the eff can’t they be civil and give these poor people their time, space and privacy. And where is the police/security presence that they were supposed to have for this reason?? I am absolutely LIVID at the press
 
  • #4,904
So true. The victims’ families have been living a nightmare for so long. Heartbreaking all around.
Right. I do feel for his family too though. There is every indication in this case, that they are in shock and had no idea what they were living with. It's not fair to put them all on camera and ask them to speak on his crimes. IMO
 
  • #4,905
The dog is barely visible but from what I could see it looks like a Black Labrador. MO
I do not think the dogs body,which is barely veiwable is a black lab. The dog apears to be black and white, wide bodied ,stocky ,and shorter, than a lab. You might be right. I still think they needs its DNA more than they needed the cats DNA.
 
  • #4,906
I do not think the dogs body,which is barely veiwable is a black lab. The dog apears to be black and white, wide bodied ,stocky ,and shorter, than a lab. You might be right. I still think they needs its DNA more than they needed the cats DNA.

I could well be wrong, it's known to happen, lol. One of my son's has a black lab and from the rear shot of it, it looks just like his dog. JMO
 
  • #4,907
I was almost in tears. Why the eff can’t they be civil and give these poor people their time, space and privacy. And where is the police/security presence that they were supposed to have for this reason?? I am absolutely LIVID at the press
disgraceful. Her son has special needs.
This disgusts me.
lE should move them.
 
  • #4,908
I do not think the dogs body,which is barely veiwable is a black lab. The dog apears to be black and white, wide bodied ,stocky ,and shorter, than a lab. You might be right. I still think they needs its DNA more than they needed the cats DNA.
The dog was only recently acquired by the family. The dog's DNA would not be relevant to crimes that RH is charged with that happened many years ago.
 
  • #4,909
  • #4,910
Unfortunately, it may take more than 30 days to settle the division of assets as part of their divorce. From what we have read in MSM, it is possible that they have a lot of debt, and those debts may have to be paid before any divison of assets. Perhaps declaring bankruptcy would help? I don't know how this works in a divorce settlement, I assume that both in a marriage are responsible for the debt that each one incurs while married, but I live in a joint property state, and don't know NY state laws on this.

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Yeah so its a good thing for her that her story of being married to this guy is worth more than all his or their assests but she cant sign any media deal until their liabilties are seperated .
 
  • #4,911
They might but she better cash in a fash as she can and duckout under the bucks out. That is The best option. Her story. Anything she worked for is under his black cloud. She needs 30 days to disovle debts from him or maybe more I do not know the laws there,but her best bet is a fast lump sum and gone.
I think she is far too vulnerable..

I'd like to see her getting something but it's too soon and her words will be twisted, she has 2 children, they need space and privacy to grieve and ....understand?
 
  • #4,912
Is the property in his name only? Curious about how any funds will be disbursed and if he will be willing to let his family have them, if there's anything left. He needs to be destitute in order for the state to provide legal assistance. Is he paying for his own attorney right now or has one been appointed?
 
  • #4,913
In one of the photos looks like a medium sized black dog. Short haired.
I stand corrected when thinking it was a black lab. I just watched a brief video on the NYP and it's much smaller than a lab.
 
  • #4,914
  • #4,915
Is the property in his name only? Curious about how any funds will be disbursed and if he will be willing to let his family have them, if there's anything left. He needs to be destitute in order for the state to provide legal assistance. Is he paying for his own attorney right now or has one been appointed?
I believe his attorney is court appointed.
 
  • #4,916
Yeah so its a good thing for her that her story of being married to this guy is worth more than all his or their assests but she cant sign any media deal until their liabilties are seperated .
They could possibly have it payout to the kids.
 
  • #4,917
From what I read, the town is petitioning to purchase the home. Hopefully, she will sell it, take the money and move somewhere quiet and peaceful.
That would likely be best, but my heart breaks for them - victims of a husband and father who betrayed and used them as cover.

The special needs adults in my own family are heavily dependent upon structure and consistency to maintain wellness and stability, and loss of home and loss of a parent are both VERY destabilizing. I really hope that AE has already established resources she can trust to help her see herself and her family through this. Life was likely already a struggle before this discovery and all that it will mean for them.
 
  • #4,918
  • #4,919
Is the property in his name only? Curious about how any funds will be disbursed and if he will be willing to let his family have them, if there's anything left. He needs to be destitute in order for the state to provide legal assistance. Is he paying for his own attorney right now or has one been appointed?
Yes, the house is in RH's name only. He also acquired it in 1994, before he married his current wife. IANAL but I don't think she has any right to it unless she paid a portion of the mortgage principal or it was refinanced in both their names, and even then she would probably get only a fraction of sale price.
 
  • #4,920
That would likely be best, but my heart breaks for them - victims of a husband and father who betrayed and used them as cover.

The special needs adults in my own family are heavily dependent upon structure and consistency to maintain wellness and stability, and loss of home and loss of a parent are both VERY destabilizing. I really hope that AE has already established resources she can trust to help her see herself and her family through this. Life was likely already a struggle before this discovery and all that it will mean for them.
BBM. I worry that he not only has emotionally destroyed his family but also financially destroyed them.

JMO
 

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