Although I am curious as well, I wish we could PREVENT serial killers from killing, but in the meantime, I would LOVE to know about his victims as well, they had hopes and dreams.
Perhaps he was able to wear a mask of sanity in front of family, friends even girlfriends/wives for a while.
My guess is his true colours came out in 1993 and that's why his first wife left him.
However, hiding it from your family, two children, and a wife in a small house seems much more difficult for 25 years!
Impossible? Maybe...I bet looking back there were red flags.
Maybe his current wife was into kinky S&M too when they first met? Either he wears the mask of sanity in front of everyone or he slipped, they have seen his true nature.
I’m not sure there was ever a hunky-dory side to living with RH. An addict is an addict. He is/was allegedly addicted to killing, torture, presumably sex, hoarding (?), and maybe more. But addicts, no matter what their poison, have addict personalities — issues with codependency, boundaries, denial, truth, control, dysfunctional relationships, etc. Stuff not conducive to a healthy family dynamics and unconditional love. This said many addicts are high functioning — hold a responsible job, make a lot of money, have dinner with the family every night — but In my experience living among them, high functioning or not, addicts have addict personalities! OMO.
Children of addicts are usually “adult children” (look up ACOA) and I mean they have to become adults in the family system while they are still children because the adults aren’t functioning in the position of adult.
While it may not be an accurate appraisal, IMO the body language, facial affect, dress, personal hygiene, and general vibe I get from sp0u$e is someone who has not been content or fulfilled for some time (added: also appears as someone with own issues)

I wonder if the entire family ever took vacations together or did m0m and k1d$ need breaks from dynamics with other parent? Or was it expected/ suggested they leave periodically?
My point is whether or not everyone in small house was aware of d@d’s misdeeds, IMO they were still living with an addict and all that means.
MOO. MOO.