I am jaded, too, because IMO adults aren't always as innocent as we would like.
Seriously I get so aggravated at the kids always getting a bad rap like an adult in an authority position would never do this or that. I say to all that think that way take a look around WS and see all the adults in charge of children that have harmed them. It's sad and wrong! :maddening:
I know that some children can and do lie, but really, so can and do adults!
MOO
RSBM
ITA! And I think because of what we see here, we need to educate our kids to use their voice when something isn't 'right'. And I'm not just talking about physical or sexual abuse. General abuse of power should be called out too.
If we teach our kids that they must always respect all adults or all teaching staff just because they are older then we are sending them a dangerous message.
I can't see that this other case has been posted here, but here's a good example of why we shouldn't teach our kids to have blind respect and follow the directions of those in authority.
A tenured teacher at a San Diego high school has been put on paid leave while the district investigates an allegation that she refused to allow a 14-year-old student to leave class to go to the toilet and instead told the girl to urinate in a bucket.
The student was instructed to go to another room out of view of classmates, urinate in a bucket and then dump the urine in a sink, according to the claim.
http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lan...ins-of-being-forced-to-urinate-in-bucket.html
In a situation like that, I would want my kids to go against the teacher and just take off to the toilet.
Back to the FB interrogation-
Ideally this girl would have told her parents, and her parents could have helped gauge if the hall monitor really was targeting her and being 'mean', and if she was, then they could have discussed it at the school.
The parents should have been monitoring her FB acc, regardless of if she was under 13 or not. And IMO it was the parents, not the schools responsibility to ensure that she was using it responsibly. I don't think that the 'I hate so-and- so because she was mean to me' is irresponsible. It's a 12 year old venting and voicing her opinion, which she's entitled to.
Over here, schools will take NO action at all over what goes on regarding FB since it can only be used outside of school, and that's how it should be.
IMO,The only time a student should get into trouble at school regarding FB is if they are using it on their phones during school hours. But that would be for breaking a school rule- not for the FB
content.
If there is bullying or threats, then that's a police issue. And the post should also be reported to FB.
I'm not sure that I agree with the law suit based on the little information we have, even though I think the actions they took were OTT. What is it with deputy sheriffs being at schools over the most miniscule things these days?
I have set up a FB acc for my 8 yr old. But only I have the password.She uses it to keep in touch with friends from her old school, and we use it as a learning tool. By the time she is actually allowed to have a FB acc she is going to be aware of all the reasons why she should or shouldn't post certain things, why accounts need to be kept private etc.
JMO