How do you feel about the memorial service planned for Caylee?

[whittymom4]

Nevermind.......:crazy:

Maybe that's why ours aren't misplaced.

Very well said!!! :clap:

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

You got it! It is also why our children wouldn't consider murder as a way out either.

I have said this before but my kids have said and more recently because of the KC stuff, that they are more scared of me than they are of LE. That's a good thing...in one month I am going to have a step grandchild, he is 7 and I am going to love him like my own...protect him like my own. (He will be my first grandchild).

 

[LeLe1953]

No one knows, but I can tell you I would NEVER LIE for my child who killed my grandchild. I honestly would want them in jail to keep ME out of jail. My adult child would never come to me with such a fabricated story to begin with. My children are known by everyone to be honest and truthful. KC was known by everyone to be a liar and not trustworthy. There is a difference.

CA has covered up for KC all her life. KC may be a BAD SEED as many believe, but I see the same character defects in both her parents, so this might be learned behavior from that family.

ITA. All good parent's know a child models the behavior they see. It's like telling your teens not to drink & drive. Well guess what, if they have always seen their parents knock back a few at a family bbq or elsewhere & then drive, telling them to not drink & drive falls on deaf ears. If you dont want your kids to do it, then YOU don't do it.

Ever leave a store with to much change or an item that was missed? Guess what, if we don't go back in to make it right, we are teaching our kids it's okay to keep something that isn't yours, even if it was a mistake.
KC did learn this behavior at home. I think we all wondered about that, suspected that, but today's behavior from the parent's make it clear. KC has spent her life stomping her foot, throwing temper fits & with that, mommy & daddy bowed down. They should have been bending her butt over their knee. My God, what was in store for poor Caylee. :behindbar

 

[SuziQ]

First? Before what? I've wondered for weeks what Tim thought about the way LP has inserted himself into this case and, more specifically, into the search effort. I think Tim's thoughts are pretty clear now.

Regardless of what Tim thinks of LP, I highly doubt that's the reason he pulled out of the search.

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

I watched what happened today on the live stream with Murt. They only have themselves to blame for the public's perception of them.

I admit, I have never been in their shoes & God know's I would never want to walk a mile in them. But ya know, as much as I love my children, I just know in my heart I could not, would not, help cover up, lie, mislead, control or try to make a buck off my grand child. I love my children to the ends of the earth but I just could not sit back & allow my grand child to be left out in the elements.

And to my beautiful grandson's ( soon to be a thrid one) I love you to the moon and back a million times over.

I agree, I would still have hope but I would still have to search, I couldn't leave any child in the woods, elements it is just not right.

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

Rob has said some bad things about CA too, has not kept it a secret how he feels either, but Cindy sure didn't let that bother her today. Not unless I mistook that for an "angry" rubbing.

Hehehe. Jemeny Christmas, what wazzz that? I have watched that like 3 times and on that third time I decided it was obscene and decided to quit watching it

 

[RR0004]

With all respect, no that is not true. Without remains, the state has to begin by showing evidence gathered to prove their belief that Caylee is deceased, and will then attempt to prove why, when, how, and by whom it was done.

As a capital case, all points would have to be proven beyond a reasonable doubt, including that someone has been killed, and that the someone is Caylee.

Dna doesn't count?

 

[catnron]

IF there is to be a memorial, it's certainly not LP's place to conduct it. His motivation is all wrong, it's not about Caylee, it's about him being in the spotlight.

Go home to California, LP. You're no longer needed in Florida. Actually, you never were.

How can LP do this to Caylee? Never again will I watch anything with him in it. What right does he have to decide to have a memorial for that baby girl? He wants the spotlight. He took over the search Tim had, he is taking over with his memorial.

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

ITA. All good parent's know a child models the behavior they see. It's like telling your teens not to drink & drive. Well guess what, if they have always seen their parents knock back a few at a family bbq or elsewhere & then drive, telling them to not drink & drive falls on deaf ears. If you dont want your kids to do it, then YOU don't do it.

Ever leave a store with to much change or an item that was missed? Guess what, if we don't go back in to make it right, we are teaching our kids it's okay to keep something that isn't yours, even if it was a mistake.
KC did learn this behavior at home. I think we all wondered about that, suspected that, but today's behavior from the parent's make it clear. KC has spent her life stomping her foot, throwing temper fits & with that, mommy & daddy bowed down. They should have been bending her butt over their knee. My God, what was in store for poor Caylee. :behindbar

110 percent correct:clap::clap:

 

[LeLe1953]

Ring-ding-dong-ringa-ding-ding-ding-dong. Sorry, that made me think of that song

:crazy: Okay, you can ring my door bell as well. I will put the coffee on for you. But for my real "special" guest, I would serve b1tches brew.......ah witches brew

 

[LeLe1953]

Ok, I wasn't supposed to laugh, right?

Where do I sign the petition?

 

[catnron]

Where did you get the information that the cross is identical to one that Casey made? To my knowledge, no one has claimed that. LP said the cross disappeared after being photographed during the search in August when the area was flooded. This area is NOT flooded. There are no searchers. The cross looks freshly made.

Something is not right here.

I think the item was made and planted there by someone that has taken it in his own hands to decide to have a memorial. He is guilty as sin! It will come out, Orlando Police are not stupid, nor is Tim.

 

[LiveLoveLaughLiza]

Hehehe. Jemeny Christmas, what wazzz that? I have watched that like 3 times and on that third time I decided it was obscene and decided to quit watching it

almost kind of -ish huh?

nv:crazy:

 

[PaperMoon]

Dna doesn't count?

Of course DNA counts. It is part of the forensic evidence, isn't it?

 

[LiveLoveLaughLiza]

I have said this before but my kids have said and more recently because of the KC stuff, that they are more scared of me than they are of LE. That's a good thing...in one month I am going to have a step grandchild, he is 7 and I am going to love him like my own...protect him like my own. (He will be my first grandchild).

Truth, what wonderful news.......congrats on your first. He is a very lucky boy.:blowkiss:

 

[RR0004]

Your acquaintances situation was unique - btw, I also know several families of 9/11 victims and they did NOT hold memorial services prior to issuance of a death certificate. Not saying your acquaintances did anything wrong, though. Here's the thing about the rules of etiquette regarding memorial services: a memorial service is for the comfort of the survivors of the deceased person. This DOES NOT include people who NEVER EVEN KNEW OR MET the person. Sorry, but this really IS an etiquette issue. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with holding a service in the hope of someday finding Caylee (dead or alive). But forcing a memorial service upon people who are clearly not ready is completely improper, and, in fact, cruel.

All I can say, this is a remarkable family and as we were all grieving for those around us who had suffered, the entire town...yes, even those who did not know this family personally came together for the service. There were many memorial services for people we did not know...not all involved family members even being there...the point being is that people often need an outlet to express their grief...their compassion for lives cut short. Proper...I'd like to know if there is a hard and fast rule as far as grieving is concerned. If we are to accept that the Anthony's are grieving in their own way, I see nothing wrong then in acknowledging that others have a need to grieve the way they see fit as well. I'm a pretty "by the book" person, but don't see where etiquette comes into play with "grief" and the best way to deal with it.

 

[RR0004]

Of course DNA counts. It is part of the forensic evidence, isn't it?

Good to know.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Originally Posted by LiveLoveLaughLiza
Rob has said some bad things about CA too, has not kept it a secret how he feels either, but Cindy sure didn't let that bother her today. Not unless I mistook that for an "angry" rubbing.

OMG! Hahahahaha~ I guess when you are single and hot...you can say whatever you like about her and her little darling, Casey! I happened to notice she was fine two seconds earlier then moved right by Rob to "break down". Yeah...right.

Angry rubbing! ROFLMAO

 

[LeLe1953]

If you are planning a memorial service for me and if I have disappeared and there is evidence of human decomposition in the main suspect's vehicle and you have a hair that could be mine with a death band on it (or that hair could also belong to certain people who are not missing but either incarcerated or disrupting your search for me) then:

By all means please proceed with the service.:blowkiss:

I won't care if you call it a memorial or a vigil or a day at the beach. Observant prayer by any other name is just that...It's observant prayer. If there is some God up there who is rejecting messages from services because the label on the name of the services is incorrect, that's big news in my opinion. rayer:

:blowkiss: You have my word, I would send ya out in style kid After our beautiful service for you, there would be lot's of doggie bones all around cause that's what would really make you smile up in heaven. I might have to fight for custody of the dog though...just so you know.

 

[LeLe1953]

I'm going to weigh in on this: it is my opinion that although the family has a right to grieve for Caylee's demise in whatever manner they deem proper, they cannot now complain about the public wanting to grieve in the manner that it deems proper, as both GA and CA (and LE, to a lesser degree) have contributed to the publicity surrounding this case. Moreover, GA and CA have had ample time (almost 4 months since Casey was arrested, right?) to conduct a public memorial service, but they refuse to acknowledge or even speak in public about her being deceased.

GA and CA cannot control what the public now believes re: Caylee's demise and, therefore, they should have thought of this aspect of the situation BEFORE they went on national television each and every day. As a very wise professor of mine once said:
you cannot unring the bell.

:clap::blowkiss: Perfectly stated.