Okay, Mama, lets hash this thing out, because its important (not because of your asserted lack of generosity :smile: which I dont believe). You are a reasonable person, so theres no reason we cant discuss it logically. As Ive said, Im convinced there was prior abuse. It doesnt matter how many posters (or experts) agree or disagree with that -- majority agreement is not proof one way or the other. Without trying to offer explanations about how many times, over exactly how long a period of time it occurred, or by whom, I feel the AR spells out the existence of prior abuse. The so-called experts who acknowledged the prior abuse either said those things couldnt be determined, or if they offered an estimate, they said there was really no way of determining these exact details with any certainty. From what Ive learned, I understand (and agree with) their inability to determine that.
I offered an explanation of what the details of the AR mean; but if someone can offer another explanation, Id like to hear it. I know some have suggested other reasons for the injuries (I dont need to bother repeating them), but most of those reasons seem (to me) to be flimsy excuses and justifications for something that should simply not be found in a six-year-old little girl. But then these other reasons dont deny the evidence of prior abuse -- they just offer other explanations for it.
So back to your above quoted response... I wouldnt ask anyone to entertain the assumption of an absolute when it is obviously open for debate. But Ive stated my belief and what it is based on, so please give me an argument against it based on what you understand in the AR.