I haven't posted much on this thread, but I've been following it for a couple of months now. I too was taken aback by some of the things said in the interview.
#1 I don't feel there was any need for JM to explain her "crazy mom status" ( which was said in a very light tone to me) because every mother with a missing child would automatically search for their child's face in a crowded, listen for their voice, etc. My sister-in-law lost her first child at a few days old and heard phantom cries for months. that is a normal thing, no need to point it out. Ice Princess was a very good description of her. I also agree with other posters that her example of the baby comforting her is concerning.
#2 VK seems much more sincere than her, not saying he's not guilty or culpable of something, but I sense very different emotional responses between the two of them. it makes me wonder if she is the one responsible. His slip-up of saying "at least not in my eyes" (or something to that effect) to me was a veiled reference to JM as he was distinguishing his view of baby Deorr from hers. It was odd.
#3 The only scenario I can imagine regarding chicken nuggets is that you're somewhere ordering food and you think to yourself about ordering something for your little one, then have the sickening realization that they're not there with you. You would never actually order the food imho. To me that was embellishing so it was done to convince.