If I Could Ask Cindy, George & Lee a Few Questions

[hannahsnana]

I'd just like to give Cindy a hug and tell her that I understand that she just can't believe her precious grandbaby is dead and at the hands of her daughter.
I really think that her heart will not allow her to believe Caylee is gone for good and she's just grasping at any hope that will prove it.
I can empathize.

People who know me would probably describe me as naive, but even I am not that naive. Cindy doesn't seem to understand that Caylee's disappearance is more than just a personal problem for the family. A missing child becomes a LE, community, public problem. Cindy also doesn't seem to understand that she and Casey are no longer in charge of the investigation. This is more than denial, IMO. It is crossing the line of obstruction. Cindy seems to have no conception that LE and others will conduct the investigation as they see fit. Why the total lack of appreciation for what Tim Miller is doing? Because it doesn't FIT her plan of how things should be done.

 

[tiredofthis]

I'd just like to give Cindy a hug and tell her that I understand that she just can't believe her precious grandbaby is dead and at the hands of her daughter.
I really think that her heart will not allow her to believe Caylee is gone for good and she's just grasping at any hope that will prove it.
I can empathize.

Thank you. :clap:

 

[Dr. Pennypacker]

What medicine have you been taking to cope with this situation.
Have you been taking it with alcohol?

 

[Angelray]

I would like to ask Cindy this question. Casey said she went to pick up her daughter and no one was there, she went to a few places that the woman had been known to go and then she went to Tonys where she felt SAFE..As a mother of four and have used many babysitters, and sometimes things happen where a babysitter may have to go to the hospital, may have had to run to the store, be broke down somewhere with no phone. Why would Casey have paniced to the point that SHE didnt feel safe? My self I would have just figured that something happened and just waited on the babysitter to call me, no way that I would have felt unsafe, Why would she even say that??

 

[TotallyObsessed]

I would ask:
If you are getting hundreds of tips each day....are they from the same vicinity? If not, how could Caylee possibly be all over the USA at once?

 

[diablo]

Also: If Caylee was already missing when Casey borrowed the shovel from the neighbor then why would she be digging out the bamboo so the baby wouldn't hurt her feet?

It's this kind of "logic" that will destroy Cindy on the witness stand.

She is not in denial, she is now actively impuning the results of the FBI lab.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I only have one question for Cindy:

Do you want Caylee back to give her a proper burial or are you going to be satisfied to know that her "coffin" was probably a garbage bag and she remains alone for eternity? Your choice.

 

[Nedthan Johns]

I only have one question for Cindy:

Do you want Caylee back to give her a proper burial or are you going to be satisfied to know that her "coffin" was probably a garbage bag and she remains alone for eternity? Your choice.

Wow Searchin, I never thought I'd hear that outta you. Good post!:clap:

 

[Nedthan Johns]

It's this kind of "logic" that will destroy Cindy on the witness stand.

She is not in denial, she is now actively impuning the results of the FBI lab.

Man you guys are good. I didn't even think of this one. I guess Casey was preparing for Caylee's return after she stopped searching for her in the bars

 

[JMCDAD]

I would ask her that how is it that that no one knows this Nanny that supposedly took Caylee, except Casey
and the person Casey said introduced her to this Nanny says
No never happened, he never introduced her

 

[STEADFAST]

People who know me would probably describe me as naive, but even I am not that naive. Cindy doesn't seem to understand that Caylee's disappearance is more than just a personal problem for the family. A missing child becomes a LE, community, public problem. Cindy also doesn't seem to understand that she and Casey are no longer in charge of the investigation. This is more than denial, IMO. It is crossing the line of obstruction. Cindy seems to have no conception that LE and others will conduct the investigation as they see fit. Why the total lack of appreciation for what Tim Miller is doing? Because it doesn't FIT her plan of how things should be done.

Exactly! This is why she seems to have no problem with Casey not reporting Caylee missing.

In fact, she acts as if LE is butting in where they don't belong.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Wow Searchin, I never thought I'd hear that outta you. Good post!:clap:

It is where we are in this case. We know that Caylee was decomposed in the trunk of Casey's car. We don't know what Casey (or others) did with her after that and is now the focus of the investigation.

 

[Nedthan Johns]

You can ask her questions like these until the cows come home, but what good will it do? Cindy said on the Today show recently, until someone proves to her 100% that Caylee isn't alive, she will not let go of hope. IT is not hard to see that what sustains her at this point in time. Look at a picture of Cindy when this case started and look at her now. She's much thinner and her face is drawn, the physical manifestations of unbearable anguish. A broken woman.


I mean no offense when I say this. As much as we have all come to care about Caylee, we do not know her in the way her family does. We do not know Casey, either. We didn't watch her come into the world, have not bonded with her, watched her grow and develop; we have not fed her, bathed her, played with her and showered her with love and care. Cindy has this in her heart. No one has the right to tell her how to think, what to believe, how to behave and grieve and all but DEMAND she give up hope, how ever small and dwindling that hope is. She needs to come to these in her own way. WE may not like her way, but we should respect it. JMO

Cindy has every right to hold onto the smallest glimmer of hope, but what she does not have a right to is to ridicule, yell or put down the public and or media for searching for her GD. To change her statements to cover for her daughter. She can still hold onto hope but also acknowledge the facts that are staring her in the face.

 

[Nedthan Johns]

I would ask her that how is it that that no one knows this Nanny that supposedly took Caylee, except Casey
and the person Casey said introduced her to this Nanny says
No never happened, he never introduced her

Right, if that isn't staring Cindy right in the face, I don't know what is. Certainly Cindy, KNOWING her GD is still alive would have spoken to this guy (forgot his name). Cindy has all of the facts right in front of her. No one is stopping her from going to the Sawgrass apartments and talking to residents, no one is stopping her from talking to Casey's friends. She wants to believe this Zenida exists yet won't find any evidence to support it. She'd rather spout out vulgar statements to the press and claim she believes every word of her "Psychotic" daughter.

 

[Betty Boop]

I would ask Cindy what her screen name is here at Websleuths (just to clarify what I already suspect). That's all.

 

[LookingForThe Truth]

I would ask Cindy why she is here reading & possibly posting, rather than LOOKING FOR CAYLEE!!!!

 

[suspicious mind]

What meds are you taking and could that be contributing to your blurred concept of reality? Seriously.

 

[DeltaDawn]

I would ask Cindy to place her daughter back in jail where she belongs until she is cooperative in the investigation. I would ask Cindy to cut all ties with her daughter and have other friends and family do the same. I would then ask Cindy to start the search that she has not started, facilitated nor emotionally thought about..that search is to find the body of your missing grand daughter and bring her home to rest.

 

[RasGirl26]

What would you say to CA and GA if you were given the opportunity to speak with them one on one?

I have thought about this from just about every possible angle and this is what I have come up with....

Life is a mysterious catechism of events that can knock us to our knees, suspend us in air, or slam us farther into the ground than we could have ever imagined. You are in a dark place full of muck and unforgiving snares. You have made rash decisions, poor calculated choices, and stretched your physical and emotional abilities to the max. Do I believe that you had anything to do with your granddaughter vanishing? The answer is no, your initial reactions told a story of innocence on your part, but your reactions and ill will toward those trying to aid you tell a different story. You just like the rest of us are not exempt from speculation, information, or intuition. However, you do have one thing that no one else has. You know your daughter better than anyone could and that gives you a perspective that is uniquely yours.

I suppose as a bystander my initial confusion is why would you so avidly protect your daughter who is grown rather than placing the same energy on finding the truth about what happened to Caylee? I realize this is a difficult if not impossible thing to answer, being that you know in your heart that Caylee is gone and despite the horror of it all your duty to protect your daughter has kicked in, in full force. If you did not have uncomfortable suspicions you would have never searched for Casey and so frantically questioned her in the first place. You weren’t content with the idea of Caylee being under her own mother’s supervision, red flags were up before you even had a clue that Caylee was in danger.

Parents all over the world have children that do things that are not only disgraceful and embarrassing, but things that force an entire family unit to make decisions that are hard and life changing. I understand that you feel an obligation to stand up for your offspring, but the reality is being supportive and being enabling are two different things. Perhaps you made some mistakes and you feel partly responsible for the way Casey has turned out, but don’t put your pride before your precious granddaughter. Casey is no longer a child and as a result of you coddling her she has no respect for you, she is intentionally using you to fulfill a sadistic need to inflict misery on others.

You have the keys to unlock the Pandora’s Box that is Casey’s mind; you have the power to end this freak show. My first impression could be that you are gaining a sense of inner justice from this; you are the American family facing the tragedy. But it’s not fun anymore and the tragedy has become a game and you have begun to play it and your losing. No one likes to be wrong, no one wants to be told they are wrong, but the one place to never tell a lie is to a news reporter. This is stressful and we are all entitled to say and do wrong things, but when those things are a deliberate attempt to fool the very people who live to support you, it takes on a whole new face.

This is what it is, and it is going where it is going, and you are cutting your life lines away. The poison that is lurking inside your home is going to work its way into your lives to the extent that it will erode everything you have that’s good. Denial is one this but a blatant disregard for facts is another. Since when have you ever known Casey to tell the truth, and I implore you to give me one good reason you are choosing now to believe her. If it were someone else’s daughter on national television with a calloused face deliberately misleading law enforcement, would you feel sorry for her? The true answer to that would be no. You may think you are protecting your family or your rights, but in the end you’re only feeding a forest fire that is replacing your lives with ashes.

I know you lie awake at night listening to the protesters call you every name under the sun, and beneath it all you know there is truth to some of their words, but you also know the pain of facing that truth is far worse than maintaining the lie. You have not spent any of your time out searching with the hundreds who have dedicated their time to you, you have not looked at the situation for every angle and everyone does in a situation like this. Perhaps Caylee is alive but wouldn’t you want to be the first to know if she wasn’t? Searching for a dead Caylee is still searching and if you can’t go where the tips are you may as well aid in the local effort.

I am not perfect nor could I say what I would do in your shoes, but I can tell you this, you have the right and the responsibility to stand up for your granddaughter, even if it means telling Casey exactly how she has affected your life. She has been waiting 22 years for one of you to set her straight and just like any child her respect and ability to be honest can only be derived by it being expected. Our children only reach the potential we set for them and now is the time to raise the bar. You may feel like hope is lost, but there are a lot of people who would stand proudly by your side if you just faced reality. Don't allow her to completely destroy your lives, it will get better and you will put it back together but that is if you can resign yourselves from the obligation to defend and begin your journey to a legitimate end.

 

[DianeB]

Sadly, I think they'd see your lips moving but wouldn't hear what you say.

But a valiant effort.