I have hardly commented for over a week. I have spent days catching up with the comments and events unfolding (finding this poor child, their arrest, etc.). After having caught up, just a few thoughts.
Even though some seem to think she was the main abuser here (not everyone, opinions vary), I at this point feel they are both pretty responsible and both abused this child.
This is in no way a defense of her but more so an inclusion of both--for instance, we know AJ was born opioid addicted but where was dad? He must have first of all known she was using during the pregnancy and second of all, why could the child not have been placed with him if not with the mother? He could have stepped up and provided the child a home and put her out if she was with him, there must have been a reason he could not parent.
While one likely flipped on the other and threw the other under the bus, I do not see either implicating him or herself to the point of the charges each carries so I am just surmising there is evidence aside from a confession that both were actively involved in the physical abuse of this child.
Again, not a defense of her but there was the one occasion the neighbor saw the boys in the car and JC was trying to get them out of there and away from him to a motel or so it seemed.
If they were not playing a game in 2014 was it(?), when they wanted the heroin users out of their basement, apparently and possibly they were clean and trying to stay that way. Too bad they didn't stay that way, not that I feel drug use is in any way, shape or form an excuse for the horrible things they did to this child and for causing his death.
Both are clear former drug users at least, he has known history even with his law firm trying to get him help; she does as well.
On another note, while it may appear the younger child was not abused or as abused as AJ, both the oldest and AJ were treated badly and I doubt the youngest escaped or at least would have escaped. It is also clear both AJ and little brother lived amongst anger, violent fights, feces, urine, lack of food, electricity, in the cold with broken windows, etc. He in no way was treated well either when one considers everything.
I wonder if the fact he was an attorney actually had him not quite as suspected or looked at by neighbors, co-workers, LE, etc. Did the two of them always live together once they met? It appeared that way.
I cannot believe she was allowed to foster children before having her own back who was born addicted to opioids, that makes absolutely no sense to me. Where was he though, was he not also in the home? How does the very agency that took your child approve you as a foster parent before you are even approved to have your own child returned?
I feel as most do, this case is one I almost wish I had not looked at and I do not think I can handle any more detail but I do want to see proof that both are responsible as I think they are. I also want to see no sweet deal for anyone if that is the case.
Just talking out loud and just my thoughts at this time.
RIP beautiful child--you did not deserve this.