kittythehare
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...she's still a missing person.
YY is primarily a missing person case.
I don't care too much whether Christensen gets life or an injection. I have little interest in his welfare. I would not like to see him acquitted - I reckon he'd make a point of coming after his many detractors.
Today's revelation about the tapes did not elevate my spirits in any way regarding a sure-fire guilty verdict, but I know that we know very, little and my opinions are based upon speculating on the few meagre facts available to us. This trial is about Christensen.
If the trial proves without any shadow of a doubt that YY's body is 'unfindable' due to full and complete destruction, I will accept that hard truth.
Is she still a 'missing person' after that verdict?
Honestly, it's all I am interested in. My biggest fear is that she is 'out there somewhere', alone and that this trial may not provide us with any clue what actually he did with her when he finished 'using' her for his own benefit, as if she was a piece of disposable trash.
#FindYingYing.
So, even if he is found guilty and penalised appropriately it will be a very hollow victory without her body being returned to her poor parents before they return home to a life of emptiness, horror and pain they possibly can never integrate and thus become his victims too.
In case it can be of any solace for some of you I’ve always loved this simple, famous Elizabeth Frye poem:
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Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
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While I want to know what happened to YY, at this point, I honestly don’t care if her remains are found — I prefer to think of her being, her soul, her spirit, whatever, scattered back into nature and the world; her atoms being re-born in oak trees and eagles, in puppy dogs and butterflies, in clouds and blades of green grass….
This view won’t be popular, but I even find the ritual of locking dead people in wooden boxes for burial 6-ft. under almost grotesque and something we do solely for the benefit of the living, not truly for the dead. So in the event she is never recovered look out over the landscape and know that her essence is already out there somewhere, free; it is not in whatever cold skeletal remnants of her lay hidden from our sight (even though I realize those may bring her parents some solace).
That's truly beautiful @Webthrush and thanks for putting it here.In case it can be of any solace for some of you I’ve always loved this simple, famous Elizabeth Frye poem:
**************
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
**************
While I want to know what happened to YY, at this point, I honestly don’t care if her remains are found — I prefer to think of her being, her soul, her spirit, whatever, scattered back into nature and the world; her atoms being re-born in oak trees and eagles, in puppy dogs and butterflies, in clouds and blades of green grass….
This view won’t be popular, but I even find the ritual of locking dead people in wooden boxes for burial 6-ft. under almost grotesque and something we do solely for the benefit of the living, not truly for the dead. So in the event she is never recovered look out over the landscape and know that her essence is already out there somewhere, free; it is not in whatever cold skeletal remnants of her lay hidden from our sight (even though I realize those may bring her parents some solace).
to a lawyer-free zone..I would not like to see him acquitted - I reckon he'd make a point of coming after his many detractors.
For what it's worth Kitty...IF...he were to be acquitted, I would hope that maybe he himself would " mysteriously " disappear as well!
I keep thinking about them and wondering what level of care they are receiving? What will cushion them during this ordeal in a foreign language which adds substantially to the stress.View attachment 188188
Cherry blossoms, Asian symbol of feminine strength & beauty.
Others will have to carry on Ms. Zhang's work of improving agriculture in China.
Cannot imagine how her family feels.