Agreed, SO much about KN we DON'T know. My own dtr fell victim to an older alcoholic psychopath (not exaggerating) while I was across the country Travel Nursing (she got mono, had to leave college, was staying with friends when he noticed her in the neighborhood..I was finishing out a contract in AZ and only heard her side of things over the phone.) Next thing I knew she had married him, then had a baby, I was unable to see her for a whole year because he isolated her and convinced her his paranoid rantings about myself and our family being evil etc were for real. She was brainwashed by this monster and even signed false accusations he wrote up seeking 2 restraining orders against me, all based on nonsense! I had to hire an atty, defend myself in court 2 times, and none of his rantings were based in reality. Very scary. Finally he pleaded guilty for threatening to kill her if she contacted me. Yes my dtr has a cognitive impairment but it is very subtle. She drives, works part-time etc but obviously needs looking after. Thankfully she is with me now, got away from him 5 yrs ago with the help of others, and my grand dtr is alive and well too, aged 7. We all live together. She got a 5 yr restraining order & will renew it in Jan. He pays no support, we just want him AWAY and so far have had no problems because he has no car, can't hold a job, big drinker, schizoid issues as well. Hoping he might O.D. on heroin or something one day so we can safely visit his parents, my grand dtrs other grandparents. While he is alive, we don't dare. Very sad. My grand dtr knows nothing of this, of course. My dtr is a very sweet, kind, good person and this guy totally brainwashed her and had her genuinely fooled into thinking his way. KN may have been taken for a ride similarly. It can happen so easily to young girls who think they are in love, then have a baby to complicate things, etc. We shouldn'tpresume to know her when we don't, nor DN either. She seems a victim to me but she may not yet even realize it, honestly. It happens!