I thought the same thing. It's like a breeding ground for SO's. Sick and scary.
haven't been able to find the site, but I'm going to take people who have saw its' word for it. I read his posts on PT.
This vile sickness certain men have towards women. (Please don't think I am a man hater, faaaaar from it.) Some shrinks will say it's because they hate their mothers, some say they love their moms too much and resent dad, some say it's about control, about rejection, about feeling abandoned, or being abused.
But, I would think it is a small percentage of people who have been treated this way who become violent and kill. it's like their souls shut off, and the devil enters the void and floods it with evil. Sometimes, this happens to a person who has been treated well, but evil finds a foothold.
When I say devil, it's not so much in a religious way, like it's a real person, but evil is real, like a person. If they stripped the 10 Commandments of the religiosity, I would definitely vote to teach those 10 rules in school!
For instance, Thou Shall Not Covet Thy Neighbor's Goods or Wife. Jealousy.
How many murders are committed out of jealousy? How many lives ruined?
Evil takes a murderous form in jealousy. Jealous of what you want, jealous of what you can't have. Above all, the coveting rules evil. Even if you have been given every opportunity in life, the jealousy and coveting will not stop if you have filled your void with evil, and it consumes you.
My friend who's a counselor gave me a few books to read, one of the Lost Boys, about young men who kill. I guess what I took from that one is boys need CONSTANT love, love, love, fill up those naturally occurring voids with love every chance you get because then they can handle rejection better. And don't reject them, parents, if you have a child take the time, spend the time, even if it makes you suffer, if you have the child, you owe them that time, love and attention.