This is incredibly well said.
I agree with the male/female relationship dynamic comment. IMO, a guy would make more of an effort to make sure a girl friend got home safe than a male friend BUT if the female friend insisted on leaving, I agree this is the equivalent of walking down the hall. IMO, in today's society, young guys are taught to be incredibly passive in some ways with young girls - anything and everything can be interpreted as creepy, aggressive etc. IF LS did walk home, it may be because she was insistent and JR just threw his hands up rather than "forcing" a drunk/drugged girl to sleep at his apt. It wasn't the right way to handle the situation, but that doesn't necessarily imply a nefarious motive.
A slight tangent, but this reminded me of how, IMO, it was accepted Hannah Wilson's friends "did the right thing" by putting her in a cab. I'm not referring to one specific quote/article, just the vibe I got from reading. It was confirmed they were planning on putting her in an Uber but then a cab came. Uber has had MULTIPLE sexual assault accusations. While cab drivers are better screened, there is something creepy about putting your drunk friend alone in a cab with a essentially a stranger. Even if the cab driver is perfectly decent, you aren't handing your friend off to another friend - the cab driver won't walk her to the door, be sympathetic if she vomits in the car etc.
IMO, the scenario of LS walking home is 100x safer and logical- I'm not referring to statistics but JRs logic v. Hannah's friends. My point is when you consider both courses of action to get a drunk friend home, while neither was responsible, I understand JRs logic in the moment more than Hannah's group of friends. It's actually funny (not haha funny, obviously) but from personal experience, I can think of multiple times I've walked home alone a few blocks but can't recall drunkenly cabbing alone EVER, in my college town or a city.
I'm not expecting Hannah's friends to anticipate murder or holding them responsible, but IMO its another example of how college kids don't prioritize safety. Unlike Hannah's case, people are so desperate for closure, its easy to tangent the idea of JR letting LS walking home alone as "crazy" but I agree it isn't necessarily.
I agree with everyone who has said what the students think, that it's safe, it's their turf. BUT it isn't safe, yes, it's Bloomington, but not the same Bloomington as even, 10 years ago.
As we have seen here, the college towns are a playground for killers. They may not be NYC or the like, but a specific
victim is there--the drunk, blacked out young woman/man.
As in most of these college towns, morning, noon, afternoon and early evening, no problems. IMO, after 9:30-10 pm,
it's not safe for a woman alone. MOST of the time, nothing is gonna happen.
10 years ago, Bloomington didn't have a raging meth problem. These people are mostly unemployable, and they prey on people in various and evil ways.
Because someone isn't aware of the problem, doesn't change the fact that they are the target. And because some of these students are from bigger cities, they think they are in
Mayberry RFD and don't worry. Sadly, their parents might have this idea too.
When people are drinking and drugging and mixing with a few thousand strangers, the only safety is in numbers. My adice would be, DO NOT GO OUT DRINKING ALONE OR GET SEPARATED FROM YOUR FRIENDS.
This advice should be posted prominently in every bar in town, by decree.