If the baby wasn't in her baby bed, why the panic before he checked with his mom in her room with a closed door? Maybe that wasn't normal for them, but I would at least ask first because that seems more likely than an abduction, right? When I stayed with my mom in her living room on visits when my son was a baby, it wasn't uncommon for my mom to take the baby into her room if he woke up while I was sleeping. I never woke up and stormed her room looking for him. It just doesn't sit well that he was that upset before checking in with the mom to see if she had her.