Am I the only person around here that doesn't believe a man attracted to a teenager is a creep? Come on, people, it's evolution. Men are hardwired to be attracted to fully sexually developed, young women. Culturally, we have moved away from 14 year old girls being married to 30 year old men, but that is a very new development in our history. 100 years ago that was common. Were all those people pedophiles? Of course not. Am I saying it is ok nowadays to do it? Of course not. I am just pointing out that being attracted to such young women is a huge part of the reproductive instinct of males. I am sure over 90% of men have such feelings, if not more. Thankfully, most of them keep them in check, though some go "American Beauty" on them.
Leaving aside what the law says, I don't see someone attracted to a 16 year old, fully developed teenager as a pedophile. For me, pedophiles are the one abusing children, that is anyone under 14, kids with no secondary sexual traits developed whose sexuality is impulsive, and not thought out (aka who masturbate in public because it feels goood versus who do it at home with a playbody and lotion).